We met on this site some years back, I'm a guy, don't ask me for dates. I messaged her as she was writing me to tell me that it would never pan out with her in California and me in Ontario Canada. She figured "what the hey, I'll chat with him, what could it hurt" We are now sitting at 3 years married with a beautiful 2 and a half year old child.
Advice to other members:
I thought I had missed the boat and was going to die a lonely man. This site proved to me that you can change your life with the press of a button, or the missing of a bus, anything. Don't give up, this was the best $19.95 I have ever spent in my life. (I hope that I don't sound like an infomercial)