What's wrong with "Friends" first??? Friendship

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 09, 2007 at 09:10 AM

    I have been "dating" now for about 3 years. And it seems to me that almost every man I've met through msg boards or otherwise is only interested in one thing....SEX!!!

    Now, don't get me wrong, I like sex just as much as the next gal, but I would really prefer that my sexual relationships be more than that. I've been called "frigid", "prude", and "cold bitch". lol, not that those names really bother me, much...but I have to question...

    Am I to old fashioned for today's dating society???
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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 12, 2009 at 05:51 PM

    Nothing wrong with being friends first. Prefer to get to know someone before anything else. There are gentlemen still alive. I believe that I am one of those people.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 23, 2008 at 08:56 PM

    I'm actually grateful when they hit me up at first. It helps me weed them right out. Better than finding out further down the road that he was lying.

    I know plenty of men that aren't that way -- you need to learn to ask the right questions before meeting and don't be afraid to tell them to take a flying leap if they creep you out. And look at their photos. If he has his shirt off, don't bother winking -- or replying.

    And NEVER EVER let someone pressure you into it. NEVER. God only knows what someone like that is carrying!!
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 25, 2008 at 10:45 PM

    it would be nice to find a guy more interested in my favorite color than my panty color! one day maybe they will realize that the best things in life are worth waiting for! tell the to look elsewhere if they want an easy lay. sometimes the wildest girls are the ones that seem the most innocent :)
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 25, 2008 at 08:34 AM

    i hear that!
    i get the same too. oh where are the gentlemen at?

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  • View author's info Posted on Feb 21, 2008 at 05:32 PM

    Hello there!
    That's what i'm looking for--friends first and let it grow!
    Men who are just looking for sex are game players--they just want to fantasize then dump you--those kind of men--and even other women who think the same--are not worth the time
    I'm looking for someone serious--not looking for games--especially with BHM from the UK! The Brits and Welsh KNOW how to treat their women fine and that's why I prefer guys from the UK
    So gals--and guys--forget the losers and choose someone who is looking for another heart! Seriousness counts!
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 03, 2008 at 02:28 PM

    Hi there tulsaradiogem, I know what you mean!! but not every guy is like that...Keep at it, Drop me a line some time! would love to chat more about this with you..Take care.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 19, 2007 at 05:06 PM

    Unfortunately, SOME guys ( I refuse to call these people MEN), seem to think that because some ladies may use the internet to find a "F*ckBuddy" for the night, that ALL ladies want the same thing.

    The main problem that folks face today is the belief that "Moral Values" no longer apply. All you can do while all around you lose their own self worth, is stick to what you "Feel" to be right.

    To me, you only have one soul to waste, so treat it with respect and be proud of yourself.

    Hugz from a like minded, old fashioned, Cuddly Scotsman.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 15, 2007 at 09:27 PM

    I so agree with you.....