looking for friendship Friendship

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 30, 2006 at 04:58 PM

    hi am new on here and i am looking for new friends. just friends. i am looking for ppl who know just how hard it is in the world everyday being a "large" person. thanks for reading this . if your interested in someone knowing how you feel let me know.

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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 26, 2007 at 01:09 PM

    Hello I am a single (BHM)-BIG HANDSOME MALE Richard and im from lockport ny, but now i live in Niagara Falls NY. I am looking for a men weight/age does not matter to me.You must like to go for long walking , country music , picnics ,dinner out ,I like playing pool ,watch wrestling and play assorted video games. I would like to have someone that has a good persontilty does not get upset easly. Likes to cuddle , white female....
    I love to laugh and joke around .I would like a man who knows how to cook as it is a turn on to me. do you like giving an reciving massages whith lotions and oils .a working woman would be a plus but at least a type of income would help .I make it on my own with my dissabilty income but belive in sharing expences . I have a friend who is helping me an teaching me daily living things as cooking, cleaning, Well if this sounds good an or want to know any more feel free to ask. Oh I am looking for someone who is honest ,not a game player,has comuncation,also all I can say is please don't judge the book by the cover till you read it from the inside or you will miss out on what is says from the heart.....
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 26, 2006 at 03:06 PM

    well hi justafriend. i am glad you added to my post . feel free to contact me . i hope to hear from you.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 07, 2006 at 08:06 AM

    Hello My name is Lisa . I know how you feel. I am looking for friends too. Any women want to write and become friends drop me a line.
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 15, 2006 at 05:57 PM

    i hear ya large and lovely.things are so hard out there. sometimes it is hard to get out to exercise because ppl look at in disbelief that you are actually out doing it. i am sorry to hear about your hubby. my mom is going through the same thing. my dad we lost to natural causes but they were together for 30 yrs and she is lost with out him. keep in touch. i can't email so i hope you will keep adding here or email me if you can.
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 12, 2006 at 02:44 PM

    Hi Lovie,

    I am also large, have a sarcastic sense of humor and would like to be your friend. I live way out in the country and it gets pretty lonely out here. Plus, I know the trails and tribulations of being a 400lb lady in a society where everything is geared towards thinner people: ie. Chairs with side arms (movie seats, airplane seats,
    Dr. office chairs, restaurant booths,etc). Also the difficulty climbling stairs,walking very far or standing very long. Not to mention finding clothes that fit, places to sit down while trying to be outside walking (for excercise), my life and what I can do is limiting. Believe me sister, I identity with you. Write back soon my potiental friend. I have two grown sons, and 3 grandchildren, and I'm a widow of 20 years. After losing my husband to a horrible motorcycle crash, I turned to food for comfort, and over time blew up to 400 lbs, and here I am. I could use a frien too lovie. Write soon.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 09, 2006 at 01:07 PM

    sorry it has taken me so long to reply. i am not an PREMIUM MEMBER so i can't email but i hope we can chat this way. thanks for the responses it makes me feel great that there are ppl who understand.
  • View author's info Posted on Oct 05, 2006 at 09:40 PM

    Hi there,

    I know just how how you feel girl. It's hard in this here world when you're large. Anytime you want to chat I'd love to. I'm from South Dakota and have a hard time making friends because of my size. I get overlooked.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 30, 2006 at 11:08 PM