I've been with tall, short, big, slender men and I agree with lonelykittykat, I want to feel feminine and safe. A guy can do that either with his size or with his personality, it all depends on the guy. Though, it's hard to feel feminine when the guy kinda holds on to you when thunder rolls.
It's like the comedian Monique says, it's HARD for two big people to get together, it's like a MAJOR workout. hee hee hee. It's much easier being with a skinny man. BUT I have to say big or tall and short or small, I go by a man and how funny and sweet he is. I really do fall for a great personality.
Oh, hella yes! I love the skinny men! Walt Disney's Ichabod Crane turned my crank when I was a young, impressionable girl (it's the adam's apple, ladies), and I've since tended to fall for the foppish, skinny, Brit-boy types (thanks to David Bowie in my teen years). I get moist thinking of Howard Stern, and I can only watch Ralph Fiennes movies on DVD because you can't hit the pause button in the damn movie theater. I have a warm place in my heart for Steve Buscemi, and Nick Cave...ohhh, Nick Cave. I can only watch his videos when I'm alone in my apartment with the shades drawn.
i have only ever dated slim/slender men...not really out of preference, but they seem to gravitate toward me. Never dated anyone over 5"8 or 140 lbs. I don't have a pic, but i'm 5'1 210 lbs. So, the answer is, yes there are some lovely bbws that are into slender men. Good luck in your search.
I dont care if a guy is slim or thin or musscley as long as they are taller and stronger than me, im 5'10" and as im large i have a bit of strength. When im with a man i want to feel feminine and sexy (silly i know) and find this difficult to acheive if iam overpowering the man. to answer ur question i love running my hands over a, be it stocky or thin,sexy man whom i no will treat me right and can throw me down when ever he wants me not someone who struggles to move me.lol.