Any man that would spout something like that to you doesn't love you for who you are! In the back of my mind I would think that he feels like he can do better, as if he's slumming it with you on his arm.
Leave him because he's not worth your self doubt, love, time, and tears. I know I'm late in my reply, but I hope you have kicked him- because once things like that issue forth from someone's mouth...you know it's deep in their heart.
I don't think anyone here is truly qualified to gauge whether you are in fact a bitch. You are fat (like me), you aren't ugly though. So his record is 1/1 so there's about a 50% chance that you are, in fact a bitch.
The real question you should be asking yourself is.. is being a bitch really a bad thing?
Well, I hate to be the bearer of harsh news but....you encourage the behavior because you stick around and are available to the meathead. Anyone who is going to stick with a fellow like this subconsciously believes what he says and it absolves you of responsibility making him the bad guy. If you weren't with him, you would subconsciously choose another guy like him to punish you, because in the end, it all comes down to you. You attract what you put out. When you feel good about yourself, the man you attract will also feel good about you.
I say this not to be mean, but to start eye-opening. Been there done that. Lose him and go to counselling and you'll find you attract a whole different other kind of man when you do.
Please don't believe what he's saying to you because my ex boyfriend used to say the same things to me. I am a strong BBW and I never let what he said bring me down because I know I have a good heart and am very beautiful and can find anyone else. You should feel the same, you are beautiful and strong and whatever he doesn't like someone else will. Ask him, if you are so ugly and fat, why is he with you. Tell him to leave so someone better can have you.
I think you deserve each other. Do you think the ?R? word is any less negative and hurtful than ?fat, ugly bitch?? If you don?t think so ask mom of a child with a disability that has come home crying because they were called a ?retard? on the playground. Shame on all of you hypocrites.