They prefer a larger woman because she is more "real" and not hung up on herself.
I'm kinda bewildered by the above comments...
"Prefer a larger woman because she is more real"...so now...thin people aren't real? Althetic people aren't real? Average people aren't real? Wow... that's interesting.. when did this come into play? Must have missed that Health lesson in school. Not sure if it's what you meant, but definately a bad choice of words to state that larger women are real... sounds like discrimination to me in reference to anyone that isn't fat.
And I know MANY larger women that are indeed "hung up on themselves". I've been told I am... why? Because I take pride in how I look. I shop for nice clothes, I take time to do my hair, and my makeup..and thus I am "hung up on myself". I don't think it is.. I think it's wanting to look and feel my best... fat or thin people are hung up on themselves...so thats a complete generalization that you've made in your statement.
I did read it Freysh... and it supports my opinion. The guys I am talking about don't need to be with a bbw for s*xual gr@tification. They prefer a larger woman because she is more "real" and not hung up on herself. There is a big difference there. I never said that there weren't men like that... but it is not fair to lump every man who prefers larger women into the fetishist category. To most, it is just a preference.
Rockchickbbw write: Trixie I love big rough hands too .... and even if they arent rough, I love them to be big and veiny .... and Sin, it was funny when I wrote that last post on Boy Bands... and then after I sent it I remembered that AJ from Backstreet Boys ... and he is an Exception to the rule THATS for sure ... he is very yummy!!
LOL Yes he is definately an exceeption to the rule... *growls* Tommy Lee is hot tho and Dave Navarro? Um hello!!
*mmmmm* you're choice of men is outstanding, though I like all kinds of men *grin*
LoL! One of the few times I was in Vegas, my friend and I saw Tommy Lee making out with some chi*ck! I couldn't keep my eyes off of him but, we couldn't go anywhere NEAR HIM! WTF!! I wanted a closer look !!!
Trixie I love big rough hands too .... and even if they arent rough, I love them to be big and veiny .... and Sin, it was funny when I wrote that last post on Boy Bands... and then after I sent it I remembered that AJ from Backstreet Boys ... and he is an Exception to the rule THATS for sure ... he is very yummy!!
Preference: the act, fact, or principle of giving advantages to some over others
Fetish:an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression
So... if you like a gal with blue eyes and brown hair vs a blonde haired brown eyed girl it's a preference.
If the girl HAS to be a brunnette in order for you to be interested, recieve satisfaction, etc...it's a fetish.
So my post earlier..to clarify is a preference.. NOT a fetish LOL
Freysh write: Trixie, have you seen his other posts, he is a misoginistic women hater basicly he has attacted women for saying they want a man with a job, he goes on about massive hooters and he thinks women shouldn't be ministers and that we all need to be christians.
So i have a problem with the whole package but the reason he is here is to find a bbw with massive breas'ts and some personality, he has tried dating women without massive breas'ts and its not for him aparantly, some of them were able to hold his attention with their personalitys but that ran out.
What a jerk and definitly a fetishist as he has to have the massive breas'ts to be interested.
Can't you just give it a rest already? Please? You just might be chasing off some really nice people around here. I know you are hurt and upset.... but please stop taking it out on us here.
Freysh, I agree to disagree with you on this one. That person is a friend of mine and I know him to be kind, intelligent and a good friend. I just feel that men are being trashed on here for stating their preferences. If they were saying they prefer a great smile or beautiful eyes, which is much more acceptable than a great set or junk in the trunk, they wouldn't be getting any flak. We got guys on here obviously with foot fetishes but no one seems to have a hard time with them, I just think folks are too quick to jump up on their stump and point the finger at others.
Freysh, you really must read all of the other posts, the person you are referring to does not ONLY look for big bo obs, he also prefers bbw's, big bu ts and an intelligent woman. Why is it so wrong for a man to state his preferences but a woman seems to be able to prefer anything she wants to?