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Paying to see who has viewed you? Comments and Suggestions

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 04, 2009 at 05:27 PM


    Ok as a new member to this site I have to say I am curious about why standard members cannot view who has looked at their profile.

    I think more women would be willing to pay for a site if they knew their profile was getting looked at. I have polled my friends who use dating sites and it is a free option on the regular sites so why not bring it in here? I for one would be more willing to pay if I knew there was an active interest from men in my area :)Just my opinion.
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  • View author's info Posted on Jan 11, 2012 at 11:44 PM


    this is crazy. I agree i have been trying to contact somone and he has tried to contact me and we have to wait two weeks to wink someone and three days to coment it is crazy arent they trying to help you find a relationship not make it harder.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2011 at 08:50 AM


    I'm with you all the way Im a newbee and to be honest with out seeing if anyone has even looked I will not being paying anything. Not to happy with this site already....
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 10, 2011 at 08:05 PM


    HELLO EVERYONE, I AM GOING TO START A CHRISTIAN DATING SITE FOR EVERYONE. IM A BBW AND GET ALOT OF HITS ON REGULAR SITES AND MY SITE WILL BE FOR EVERYONE AND WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU ONLINE. JUST LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE ON THE SITE AND I WILL DO MY BEST TO ACCOMADATE YOU. IF IN FACT THE SITE DOSEN'T HELP THE BBW POPULATION AND IT DOES WELL WITH THE AVERAGE SIZE POPULATION I WILL START A BBW SITE FREE OF CHARGE.
  • View author's info Posted on May 19, 2010 at 05:52 PM


    I also agree. :-)
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 13, 2010 at 05:30 PM


    I agree
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 11, 2010 at 06:06 PM


    I agree, standard members should be able to see who has viewed them. I agree more people would maybe sign-up or upgrade.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 25, 2010 at 11:45 PM


    Quoting author:



    that is funny



    I agree with you!

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 04, 2009 at 08:52 AM


    wow not encouraging to read from this newbie's perspective. Thanks for the gander though saves me the expense of joining and the time of bothering to check back for any interested members.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 22, 2009 at 06:32 PM


    I am a non paying member on all sites that require it. I am married and do not chase after women. I do beleive that you could contact a member on the chat site if you were interested. A lot of the paying sites are restricting contact even more now.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 18, 2009 at 02:58 PM


    I use to be a paying member and wasn't really impressed with the folks that were contacting me so I let the membership run out. Now I'm just plain angry that they suck into filling out a profile but unless you pay, you really can't do much of anything. More and more sites are going this way and with money as tight as it is, I think they'll be sorry. I won't be paying to join here again.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 07, 2009 at 04:40 PM


    Thanks Carolyn

    I'm with you on the won't be paying for this site... and the fact the site admins don't respond to the suggestions also raises a red flag given they advertise a regular prize etc. One would think if they had a genuine interest in providing a dating service for BBBW/BHM and admirers then they would be enticing us more.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 06, 2009 at 02:10 PM


    I totally agree with you! So far, this is not a site I would pay for as I have not gotten any significant interest that I can see, only one contact from one I strongly suspect is a scammer.... not paying for this!
    Good luck to you -