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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 01, 2005 at 10:34 PM

    Sometimes being the only bbw and single in my somewhat large circle of friends gets lonesome and an inkling of depression kicks in; what i'm looking for is some quote or saying unique to bbws (who cares if u made it up yourself) to use as a mantra when doubts creep in. Any suggestions??
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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 14, 2008 at 08:03 PM

    Love yourself...others are bound to follow. That is my motto.

    "To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long love affair" - The Importance of Being Earnest

    I was in a failed engagement a few years ago and I have been basically single ever since, and when I am feeling lonely, I just remind myself that it is better to be patient and wait for Mr. Right than rush it and wind up with Mr.Wrong. If he is the right one, then he is worth waiting for.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 16, 2007 at 07:15 PM

    I went to the Bahamas a few years ago and it is true. I was on the beach and I couldn't get any sun because of all the guys coming up to me. It is a great way to boost your self-esteem. Also a great place to have alot of fun.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2007 at 08:32 PM


    1- Have you not seen Monique's Fat Chance? Start using the phrase Fabulous And Thick when you think of being F.A.T.

    2- You need a trip to Nassau Bahamas where the men love all women, no matter what size, you will find several stepping to you with all seriousness. It's wonderful for self esteem. In fact, we should have a BBW convention - I'd be happy to meet you there!

    3- Connect with other BBWs/BHMs.You might find a local group that meets offline.

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  • View author's info Posted on Jan 08, 2007 at 07:33 PM

    I'd rather be alone by choice, than with someone and lonely.
  • View author's info Posted on Nov 12, 2006 at 08:09 PM

    Thas an easy one simply..


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  • View author's info Posted on Oct 24, 2006 at 11:13 PM

    Its way more fun to cuddle with a teddy bear than a bicycle.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 04, 2006 at 02:19 AM

    Balance. I believe the one of keys to life is balance. You need to have a balance on what goes on in your life. Like where you go and what you do. If all you do is go to the same places and do the sames things you tip the scales to boredom. If all you do is take chances you tip the scales to disaster. You also need to balance your friends. Find another BBW to hang out with.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 29, 2006 at 09:29 PM

    Hi Curvy

    Never lose sight of your self-worth and the value you add to a relationship.

    Then always remind yourself

    BETTER TO BE ALONE so that you are free to find the RIGHT ONE, then to be hooked up with the wrong one who consumes your time and energy and may cause you to miss your opportunity for finding life long, TRUE love!

    There are truly awesome genuine guys out there, hot men that appreciate you as you are today, I hope that Y O U can find the good in who you are T O D A Y and MAKE IT WORK for you!

    "Sexuality is in the mind, before all other places".

    Our attitudes, belief systems, level of self-love and self-worth set the stage for what follows, and for what results. Being angry, anxious, frustrated, bitter, or unhappy affects your ability to think clearly, live fully and love life!

    What's more, we radiate what we think intensely, and we attract or manifest accordingly. When your thoughts are negative, choose to be more aware of having positive thoughts instead, making the right CHOICES and and moving forward with defined actions.

    My profile clearly projects, "My confidence in myself and my ability to please the men I have been with override the vision our society projects sexy and sensual to be".

    I have my personal reasons for not having my pic on line, but would be happy to share it with you.

    Have a great day!
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 22, 2006 at 02:58 PM

    Hey, who needs a pillow when you have a soft and squishy lady to cuddle with? I make humor out of any situation!
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 22, 2006 at 05:20 AM

    if you can't take it off, might as well take it in. ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 17, 2006 at 07:56 AM

    I think you've already said it. "I'm a Curvy Leo".

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  • View author's info Posted on Jan 16, 2006 at 04:40 PM

    Hon.........Its so simple...
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 06, 2006 at 01:11 AM

    "we're not worthy!"

    I'm rather suprised you don't get more grins you'd turn my head in a bar, library or wherever else.
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 24, 2005 at 04:37 PM

    DO YOU LIKE YOUNGER MEN? I'M 34 6"4' 422 LBS i live in lockport new york in western part of the state WORKING TO LOSS SOME
    MORE WEIGHT, i like country music, walk, swim, football fan ,Pepsi or mountain dew, ice cream, a good home cooked dinner, down time with someone spaceal chubby,I am a larger man looking for a romantic women.Looks and build not important. It is what is in the heart that counts!
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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 12, 2005 at 05:36 PM

    Dear Curvy~
    I agree with what the people here have said - you ARE beautiful and have a knock-out smile! I read your profile, too. They are right- you are just fine the way you are. I'd like to respond to your questions: "Variety is the SPICE of life" and NEVER forget that!! LOL I am often the only bbw in groups and sometimes it's painfully obvious, but a lot of the time I don't think about it at all. Just like I don't think, "Oh, I'm the only white girl here" or "Goodness! I'm the only biologist here". Yes, we are not the current description of the "American ideal" but that has changed over the years. And it has also changed throughout history. There have been eras in history where well-endowed women were the height of beauty and desire. Fads come and go. Ultimately, how you carry yourself, what energy you radiate, and who you are is what counts. I once received a very interesting, but good comment from a lover (who was not accustomed to sleeping with bbw)- he told me "You are so comfortable!" I was shocked at the statement, but then I realized that he is sure right! There were no sharp points on my body, only softness and comfort and warmth. It made sense, though I had never thought about that aspect of me before then.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 10, 2005 at 08:18 AM

    Hi Curvy,
    After looking at your profile I am at a loss to understand how such a beautiful and charming woman, with a smile that could soften granite, could ever be lonely (I only wish you were in the UK.) But as for blasting away those negative thoughts, remember you are unique, you stand out from the crowd, you are not one to be penned in with the trend following sheep, say it once, say it loud, I'm Big, Beautiful and proud.
  • View author's info Posted on May 10, 2005 at 09:19 AM

    When I feel like that I look up to the sky, ask God to help me thru it and I feel better right away.....

    Life is too short to let other peoples comments bring you down....keep on keeping on....

    Good luck
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2005 at 05:15 PM

    cpraprincess write:
    Be happy you are not like the rest of thepeople in your circle. You are who you are and you are beautiful not matter what. WHen that thought creeps in do somehtignelse to keep your mind off of it and yes its as as it sounds.

    AMEN !

    Don't be the people around you... be yourself!

    Good Luck!