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Roxxxxxx
33, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
What is everyone’s safe word?

Mine is: glassWhen I say 'glass', my partner stops. Want to know what your safe word is? Welcome to leave your comments...

RTxxxxxx
34, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
What is your wildest BDSM experience?

The wildest BDSM experience I had was with my partner in a forest. We hiked about a mile off the trail into the woods until we found the perfect tree where she could tie my arms and legs to, belly facing the tree and just tore my ass up with a switch. After that, she put a noose around my neck and used all her might to pull me up and hung me for a minute or so at a time.So...what is your wildest??

Bixxxxxx
35, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
Can anyone offer some bdsm video?

I am a new submissive and need some tutorials to learn. If you are interested in me, you can also message me!

Boxxxxxx
41, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
How I discovered my BDSM inclinations

One of the earliest signs was a fascination with power dynamics and control, both in my personal relationships and in the media I consumed. I found myself drawn to stories and imagery that depicted dominance and submission, sparking a curiosity within me that I couldn't ignore.As I delved deeper into BDSM literature, online forums, and discussions, I began to realize that my interests aligned closely with the principles and practices of BDSM. Concepts such as consent, negotiation, and safe play resonated with me on a profound level, and I felt a sense of validation and belonging within the BDSM community.

brxxxxxx
39, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
A bad BDSM experience has shaken me up

For years I?ve enjoyed BDSM play but a recent bad experience has shaken me. I hooked up with a guy, who seemed to be an experienced "top", and we negotiated a scene together. He was able to take me deep into "sub" space and I enjoyed pushing my boundaries. When it was over though, he just went and had a shower. I asked if I could shower too and he handed me a towel and told me he was calling me a taxi. I felt shell-shocked and bewildered by the way he just cut me off.

Shxxxxxx
37, M, Columbus, OH, USA
I’m a top with rich experience…

As an experienced top, I wanted to reach out and express my desire to connect with a compatible bottom for mutually fulfilling BDSM experiences. Over the years, I've honed my skills and understanding of dominance and control, and I'm eager to share my expertise with a willing and enthusiastic partner.

I'm seeking a bottom who is not only curious and open-minded but also respectful of boundaries and eager to explore their submissive desires. Whether you're new to BDSM and eager to learn or an experienced player seeking new heights of pleasure, I believe in fostering a dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual respect.

My interests within BDSM are diverse and encompass a wide range of activities, including but not limited to bondage, impact play, sensation play, and role-playing scenarios. I'm also open to exploring new kinks and fantasies with the right partner, as long as it aligns with our mutual interests and boundaries.

DOxxxxxx
34, W, Los Angeles, CA, USA
Does anyone recommend a good collar?

I'm currently in search of a high-quality collar for my submissive partner, and I was wondering if anyone could recommend a good one. As someone new to the BDSM community, I want to ensure that I invest in a collar that is not only durable but also comfortable and aesthetically pleasing.

Maxxxxxx
38, M, Los Angeles, CA, USA
I learned a new bounding rope

Step 1: The rope starts folding in half by putting the two ends together. The two ends form the tail.Step 2: Coil from the tail until the remaining length is roughly 1.5 to 2 times the length of your hand.Step 3: Bend the rope 90 degrees to wrap around the center of the coils.Step 4: Once there is less than a hand's length of rope left, push the bight through the center of all the coils.Step 5: The bight is a small loop that goes over the outside of all the coils.

Inxxxxxx
21, W, Seattle, WA, USA
Sunshine, flowers, and me

Everything is so beautiful, would you like to have them, also have me?

Clxxxxxx
33, W, Los Angeles, CA, USA
Invite me to play some kinky game

If you're looking for a like-minded individual to share your kinks, fantasies, and experiences with, I'm here and eager to connect. Let's navigate the intricacies of BDSM together and create authentic connections that enrich our lives.

Aaxxxxxx
33, W, Columbus, OH, USA
Whip or handcuffs?

what is your prefer or...both

Msxxxxxx
36, M, Columbus, OH, USA
Looking for a partner in the same city

I'm from Miami, Florida and looking for a local dom, I have a variety of props and rich experience. I am willing to obey your control and give you a great gaming experience. If you are please message me

Waxxxxxx
30, W, Columbus, OH, USA
Face slapping 👋👋

I'm a really really bad bitch, is there any queens who slap me, or punish me? PLEASE! I can be your dog and eat your s**t.

Aixxxxxx
23, W, Seattle, WA, USA
A character flaw or a character gift?

Is the inability to be a natural pleaser a good thing or a bad thing?

Goxxxxxx
22, W, Seattle, WA, USA
Life needs some new excitement.

The same life is really let people live enough, is there any way can change?

Daxxxxxx
40, M, Seattle, WA, USA
What kind of flowers do you get a girl you meet for the firs

The first time to meet a friend who has never met, is a girl, with such a bouquet of flowers, reasonable?

Flxxxxxx
37, M, Seattle, WA, USA
How to release the pressure in the heart?

Overwhelmed by the pressures of life and needing to be rescued, maybe we can save each other.

Shxxxxxx
21, W, Seattle, WA, USA
Share your character

With so many personality tests these days, does everyone think they are accurate?

Enxxxxxx
31, M, Seattle, WA, USA
Travel around the world.

I have traveled to many places, but I have always been alone, a person is very good, but occasionally want to have a company. Did you have any fun traveling alone?

Daxxxxxx
29, W, Los Angeles, CA, USA
Ready to dive into the depths of DUNGEON

If you're ready to surrender to a skilled and attentive Dom, I encourage you to reach out. Let's embark on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery and pleasure together.

Jexxxxxx
28, W, Portland, OR, USA
Searching a connection in the world of BDSM

I'm looking for a Sub who is experienced, empathetic, and understanding of my boundaries. Whether you're into bondage, discipline, impact play, or other aspects of BDSM, I'm open to exploring new experiences and pushing my limits in a safe and consensual manner.

Joxxxxxx
31, W, Portland, OR, USA
Hi, I'm new here

I'm in search of a submissive individual who is open-minded, eager to learn, and willing to push their boundaries within the realms of safety and consent. Whether you're a novice eager to dip your toes into BDSM or an experienced player seeking new heights of pleasure, I believe in creating a supportive and nurturing environment where we can both grow and thrive.

Rixxxxxx
41, M, Portland, OR, USA
Exploring the Journey of Self-Discovery

As someone deeply immersed in the BDSM lifestyle, I've witnessed and heard many stories of how people uncover this aspect of their sexuality. Here are some common experiences shared by those who have discovered their BDSM inclinations:Exploration and Curiosity: For some, the discovery of BDSM begins with a natural curiosity and exploration of alternative sexualities and practices. They may stumble upon BDSM-themed books, movies, or online content that piques their interest and prompts them to delve deeper into the world of BDSM.Fantasies and Daydreams: Many individuals discover their BDSM desires through fantasies and daydreams that involve elements of power dynamics, dominance, submission, and bondage. These fantasies may manifest during masturbation, sexual encounters, or even in everyday thoughts and dreams, sparking a desire to explore BDSM in real life.

Swxxxxxx
35, W, Los Angeles, CA, USA
How to be a Submissives?

Are you intrigued by the idea of surrendering control and embracing your submissive desires within the world of BDSM? If so, welcome to the journey of self-discovery and exploration that awaits you. As an experienced Dom, I understand the importance of guidance and support for those who are new to the realm of submission.

Kixxxxxx
32, M, Nanchong, SC, CHN
Life requires exercise, which secretes dopamine!

Need a bike buddy to travel far away together? Anyone up for that?

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