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What's it all about ... Alfie???

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Posted on Mar 19, 2013 at 01:25 AM Total posts: 8

It's been awhile since I visited and posted a blog ... I think today is a good day to start blogging and asking questions!

This might seem like a silly question and at first glance it may actual seem to have an obvious answer.  But take a moment to really think about it ... "How do you love?"

Everyone talks about it and almost everyone has different ideas about it.  What I do know  is that you have to love yourself before you can love another person ... you have to realize that you are worthy of being loved, respected and admired. And you alone are responsible for how you love and how you accept or don't accept love.  Love and sex are often confused ... can you have one without the other?  Yes!  Can you only have one with the other?  Yes!  Again, more confusion!

So .. How do you love?  Do you love without asking anything in return?  Do you love only on the pretense that you get your own way? Do you love only some of the time?  Is there such a thing as "love at first sight or is it really just a strong physical attraction?  Are you too old for love? Does love really make the world go around?

Love is communication.  Love is not always doing just what one person in the relationship wants.  Love is about trust, not about jealousy.  You can live very well without the special love of another person.  Love does change and it is possible that the person you love so much today will not be the person that you love for the rest of your life. Any scientist will tell you that love does not make the world go around and most scientists will gladly explain about gravity etc. But remember at the same time there may be moments when you know that scientist's are wrong!

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Posted on Jun 29, 2013 at 02:21 PM

Love is not something you do, Its something you nurture thru your actions/ interactions with others Love is about giving, knowing you recieve jut by giving. Its about waking up beside someone knowing that you are where you want to be, where you are energized, and the other feels the same