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It seems like I've been at it for years now...searching for someone who is actually interested not only in me for me but in a real relationship. Why is it that dating sites and clubs only make you feel like you aren't good enough for others to really want to get to know you not just get in your pants as fast as physically possible? I do not get it and it's emotionally exhausting.

Call me a dreamer but I feel like it shouldn't be this hard to find someone who sees the value and worth in you and wants to be there. Someone who enjoys your smiles, your laughs, the little things that make you you. Someone who geniunely doesn't want to spend the rest of their life jumping from bed to bed and half the time thinking up excuses to cut and run.

I joined this site because I thought maybe if I start with a group of people that are all shapely like myself there is less judgement and more acceptance that it would give me a chance of finding that person. So here is to hoping ... to finding a guy who is true and geniunely interested in me as a person.


Posted on Apr 20, 2013 at 08:20 AM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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anyone interested in putting together a face to face meeting or mixer it's the only way to weed out the phony and fake from the real deal I've done them before and they been very very successful.


Posted on Apr 26, 2014 at 03:35 PM Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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Yep I feel you it seems most say one thing and have a totaly differnt agenda, or have serious un treated mental issues! I am not judgemental just want the real and someone who is focused on self but is emoitionaly available. too much maybe.....


Posted on Dec 15, 2013 at 03:11 PM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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Yep I feel you it seems most say one thing and have a totaly differnt agenda, or have serious un treated mental issues! I am not judgemental just want the real and someone who is focused on self but is emoitionaly available. too much maybe.....


Posted on Dec 15, 2013 at 03:11 PM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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I am having a real hard time weeding out people.


Posted on Aug 23, 2013 at 01:38 PM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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Relationships are always a work in progress. So many frogs to kiss (if you chose to).  I can only say  WHEN you find the right one ... Work even harder to keep him . Good luck


Posted on May 14, 2013 at 07:15 AM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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I am having the same problem. I'm Widowed and now just getting back into the dating. Problem I'm having is everyone is too far and from what I have met. Most don't really know what they want. I met my Wife on a dating site and was with her 18 years married for 4 years. So I have a pretty good track record,  I think. I am getting down myself on this dating. Oh well chin up deep breath and keep moving forward. I don't like being alone. Someone has got to be out there!!

 

Posted on Apr 23, 2013 at 10:50 PM Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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I feel the same way; however, I am having the same difficulties.  People I am interested in are not responding and I am getting emails and winks from people I am not interested in.  Very disgusted at this point.  I hope you are more successful.


Posted on Apr 21, 2013 at 08:53 AM Reply / Add Comments Quote Report