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Been in Pueblo Colorado for 2 months. I have had 4 so called men ask me out and all but one changed their plans without informing me. The other told me straight out that after thinking it over.. that I was too large for him. And when you sign up for dating sites. People only want to talk about sex. Sex is nice but sheesh.. meet me first..stick around and earn it.. let me earn it. I guess I'm just getting old. Dating is so hard in your 30s!!

Posted on Aug 14, 2015 at 09:32 PM 7 Likes Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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That is utterly totally unlike me.  I want sex, but only after marriage.  And no woman is too large for me.  I have by far the most detailed profile I've come across on  I've also winked at around 100 women and messaged about two dozen. But I've only gotten around 5 winks and 4 messages.  And all of those cut off contact with me. So before any of you blame men, you need to check out my profile and give me a chance. 

-------------stalactite from Saint Charles, Illinois; United States.


Posted on Jun 11, 2017 at 03:50 PM Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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If he thought you were too big, what the hell was he doing on a BBW dating site?!

Posted on Feb 15, 2017 at 04:23 PM 1 Like Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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I want sex too - but not on the first date!  Or the second.  Or the third.  What has happened to anticipation?  Instant gratification has won out over building sexual tension for so many people, which is unfortunate because building sexual tension is fun and exciting and can lead to...lots of fun!

Posted on Nov 05, 2015 at 12:50 PM 5 Likes Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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I agree with Qadesh!!  Be true to you and the rest will follow. :)





Posted on Nov 01, 2015 at 01:08 AM 3 Likes Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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Hi cristal


I keep running to the same issue and I live on a south east coast. Most of the guy i meet just want sex. I am on multiple site and it's the same on on each. I think online dating has become one giant hookup site. 

Posted on Sep 06, 2015 at 12:44 AM Reply / Add Comments Quote Report
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Dating will be difficult no matter what your age!  Perhaps with the other men who didn't follow through, you have dodged the proverbial bullet! Just be true to yourself, and you will be fine.


Posted on Aug 16, 2015 at 10:30 AM 2 Likes Reply / Add Comments Quote Report