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Are there any real people on this site?

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Posted on Nov 30, 2012 at 08:21 PM
I am just wondering if there are any genuine women on this site. It seems like most profiles haven't been logged into in over a month and some profiles have an age in the description that can be up to 9 years less than the actual age displayed in the header. Of all the women I have sent e-mails to, probably 20 have not replied at all, one at least was polite enough to inform me that she only dated locals and one simply disappeared after two e-mails. What's going on?
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Posted on Aug 16, 2013 at 08:54 AM Total posts: 2

Well yes there are, but maybe if your put a picture on your profile women might feel more secure with talking to someone they can at least see who the person is.

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Posted on Mar 08, 2013 at 03:57 PM

NOBODY IS HERE IN MY CITY.PEOPLE ALL ON MONTHS AGO ONLY GET RESPONSES FROM PEOPLE IN OTHER COUNTRIES AND STATES.I BELIEVE SOME OF THOSE WOMEN ARE PAID,BAIT AND SWITCH.

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Posted on Mar 04, 2013 at 05:02 PM

NOT IN MY TOWN IT SEEMS.UNLESS MY STRAIGHT TALK AND GOOD LOOKS SPOOKED THEM??

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Posted on Dec 06, 2012 at 07:00 PM
wannabegood11I think you misunderstood my original posting on this blog. The fact that 20 women never responded to my e-mails had nothing to do with my approach or they being rude. I had simply tried to contact women who were no longer active on this site. I didn't know it at the time, but have since learned that at least 95% of all profiles on this site are old, no longer active profiles.
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Posted on Dec 06, 2012 at 08:28 AM Total posts: 2

Check your approach...and don't diss those that don't respond to you.  That's a sure sign that another might not measure up and you'll diss her on a public forum as well.  Everyone has feelings...no one wishes to be disrespected.  Perhaps it's just not your time to meet someone or simply not from the internet.  You appear to be quite handsome...I'm a tad curious as to what's up with females that actually know you in the REAL?  What are you projecting?  Happy Holidays

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Posted on Dec 03, 2012 at 05:43 AM Total posts: 777

Great suggestion for the suggestions thread in the forums.. you are also more likely to find more active members in the forums as well.

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Posted on Dec 03, 2012 at 04:10 AM
I have come to the conclusion, that if the profile hasn't been logged in to in over a month it is most likely no longer an active profile, which makes sense, because why would anybody sign up for this site and then not log in for a month? This means that more than 95% of the profiles listed on this site are no longer active. As a test I contacted someone who had logged in within 3 days and I got a reply within hours. There should be a filter to eliminate those profiles that haven't been logged into in over a month, just like I can filter out those without pictures when searching.
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Posted on Dec 02, 2012 at 10:08 AM Total posts: 84

You will find that this is a common plight with any dating site.  It is after all an online dating site which in of itself is already "flawed".  This site used to be rather active but the old timers have since left, hopefully to some bliss-filled pairing, or have just left.  There is not any solution as to who will respond or who will not to an email.  Sometimes the no response is the response.  All I can tell you is try and not become dis-illusioned, and to keep trying.  Be well.

Qadesh

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Posted on Dec 02, 2012 at 09:24 AM Total posts: 1

Don't worry Charlie if they didn't respond then it wasn't meant to be. Keep the faith she is out there for you