Just thought I'd vent my frustrations here for a minute. A guy sent me a wink a few days ago here and when I read his profile, I saw that he was clearly looking for something "quick" - he even passed censors and had posted what he'd like to do to a woman's large ta-tas (by using the f-bomb nonetheless). So I nicely replied that we were looking for different things.
Then he asked how did I mean... So I literally pasted his profile into the email and said that I was looking for more than an 'intimate encounter'. He replied asking why I was wasting his time. I replied that HE initiated contact with ME and that he was wasting his own time.
He then called me an F-bomb, fat b-bomb... I couldn't believe it!
I tell ya - he was a REAL winner! Hopefully, I won't have to deal with any more freaks like that!
Hey everyone! After awhile this guy has just become amusing! As soon as he would IM me, I would just start out with "No, i'm not sending you pics!". I am easily amused! I'll e-mail you his name curvy just so you don't bother with him! Maybe I'll send you the names of some guys who you should bother with too! :) Their responses don't get me down though! I'm a sexy gal!!!!
Gawd yes!!!! Just block them on the instant messenger right away. Don't even respond as it just encourages anyone who is looking to insult someone. Just think, these people have nothing better to do but ask anyone who will listen for nudie pics or dirty talk. Talk about desperate!
Hideho, just a suggestion...you can block him on your IM client. Then he won't be able to bug you anymore. Also, should this happen again...stick to your guns/gut feelings. When you continue to talk to someone like this...even if you're just trying to be polite...90% of the time they take it as encouragement to keep doing what they have been. Chin up...the right ones are here and out there...you just have to keep sifting to find them.
Hey Curvy! I have this guy I was IMing, and our first IM conversation was him insisting that my camera was broken because he wanted to see me before we got together just to make sure I was who I said I was. Since his computer was having the problem, we waisted almost an hour on it. Then he insists I send him a pic or two before he will see me. I send him two rather nice pics, and then he insists I send him some "revealing" shots to impress him before he will see me. I said "no thanks".
So every time I'm IMing someone, he gets on and continually asks me for the nudie shots, and this is the ONLY subject he ever converses about. As if I'm stupid enough to just go around sending every guy that asks nudie pics!.
Finally, after blowing him off for weeks, he IM's me again saying he's ready to meet me. We have a decent conversation for once, but of course it ends in me having to send him nudie shots before he'll meet me. He'll come over and give me the night of my life if I do. I shoot back at him that I had a rather nice time just the day before with someone else and didn't really need his nice time! Then he calls me a sl&* and says never mind. Do I really have stupid and desperate painted on my face???
CurvyCurly, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Some people on here are straight up jerks. When I get emails and winks from guys like that I don't even bother responding because it is obvious that they didn't read my profile. I hope you did report him though. Good luck to you!