Some people! Romance Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 01, 2005 at 05:26 PM

    Just thought I'd vent my frustrations here for a minute. A guy sent me a wink a few days ago here and when I read his profile, I saw that he was clearly looking for something "quick" - he even passed censors and had posted what he'd like to do to a woman's large ta-tas (by using the f-bomb nonetheless). So I nicely replied that we were looking for different things.

    Then he asked how did I mean... So I literally pasted his profile into the email and said that I was looking for more than an 'intimate encounter'. He replied asking why I was wasting his time. I replied that HE initiated contact with ME and that he was wasting his own time.

    He then called me an F-bomb, fat b-bomb... I couldn't believe it!

    I tell ya - he was a REAL winner! Hopefully, I won't have to deal with any more freaks like that!
    Follow - email me when people comment
  • 12Comments

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 10, 2005 at 04:17 PM

    Good for you Curvy!!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 08, 2005 at 03:19 PM

    Sounds like a plan Hideho! I'll look for that email from ya!

    I ended up reporting the guy who was rude to me and I'm told he's been banished! ha!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 08, 2005 at 11:11 AM

    Hey everyone! After awhile this guy has just become amusing! As soon as he would IM me, I would just start out with "No, i'm not sending you pics!". I am easily amused! I'll e-mail you his name curvy just so you don't bother with him! Maybe I'll send you the names of some guys who you should bother with too! :) Their responses don't get me down though! I'm a sexy gal!!!!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 06, 2005 at 01:01 PM

    Hideho - So sorry that he keeps on pressing for those pics - what a slug! Heck, it might even be the same guy (Woodridge).

    Hang in there girl...! ;-)
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 06, 2005 at 12:58 PM

    Gawd yes!!!! Just block them on the instant messenger right away. Don't even respond as it just encourages anyone who is looking to insult someone. Just think, these people have nothing better to do but ask anyone who will listen for nudie pics or dirty talk. Talk about desperate!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 05, 2005 at 11:38 PM

    Hideho, just a can block him on your IM client. Then he won't be able to bug you anymore. Also, should this happen again...stick to your guns/gut feelings. When you continue to talk to someone like this...even if you're just trying to be polite...90% of the time they take it as encouragement to keep doing what they have been. Chin up...the right ones are here and out just have to keep sifting to find them.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 05, 2005 at 03:39 PM

    Hey Curvy! I have this guy I was IMing, and our first IM conversation was him insisting that my camera was broken because he wanted to see me before we got together just to make sure I was who I said I was. Since his computer was having the problem, we waisted almost an hour on it. Then he insists I send him a pic or two before he will see me. I send him two rather nice pics, and then he insists I send him some "revealing" shots to impress him before he will see me. I said "no thanks".
    So every time I'm IMing someone, he gets on and continually asks me for the nudie shots, and this is the ONLY subject he ever converses about. As if I'm stupid enough to just go around sending every guy that asks nudie pics!.
    Finally, after blowing him off for weeks, he IM's me again saying he's ready to meet me. We have a decent conversation for once, but of course it ends in me having to send him nudie shots before he'll meet me. He'll come over and give me the night of my life if I do. I shoot back at him that I had a rather nice time just the day before with someone else and didn't really need his nice time! Then he calls me a sl&* and says never mind. Do I really have stupid and desperate painted on my face???
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 04, 2005 at 11:31 AM

    Thanks everyone... I hadn't thought of reporting him, but I probably should. I did post on his profile so if anyone checks, they'll see what he did.

    It just floored me - the whole thing. I think you're right, I'll just ignore the guys that don't seem 'right' to me who send me a wink or email.

    And here I was just being polite to the creep!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 03, 2005 at 10:44 AM

    CurvyCurly, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Some people on here are straight up jerks. When I get emails and winks from guys like that I don't even bother responding because it is obvious that they didn't read my profile. I hope you did report him though. Good luck to you!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 02, 2005 at 11:38 AM

    Hi CurvyCurly...Welcome. That guy does sound like a prize! Good grief! Hope you blocked him. Better luck next time my friend.

    By the way Scoot, welcome back!! Haven't seen you here in forever!! We miss your insightful posts and witty comments! Hope to hear more from you! ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 02, 2005 at 11:35 AM

    I hope you reported him for the abuse and that you name him so that other ladies know to have him marked as do not recieve from him.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 02, 2005 at 06:46 AM

    yes, that is a real winner, ladies.. that is the kind of man you need in your life... or NOT ! .. LOL

    But Incredibly to me, I know many woman who not only stick to them, but Marry them ! ... ?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Follow - email me when people comment