Well Marvel, I think you have asked a good question.
In my opinion, we (on this site and certainly elsewhere) have ourselves a double standard of epic proportions.
Many people are shocked and dismayed at the mention of a Booty Call. People claim to be disgusted by the very thought of such a dirty sin, but have, in fact, participated themselves.
This is what I think is going on. EVERYONE wants a sexual encounter now and then, EVERYONE. However, no one (especially women) wants to admit to wanting or, even worse, admit to having the illustrious Booty Call. If people think that admitting to this will deter potential suitors, what about the dishonesty they're dealing out to cover the sex scandal?
A couple of simple cliches could clear this matter up.....Honesty is the best policy.....Everyone is doing it.....
Good question. I've only been on this site for a short time, but I feel pretty confident in saying that there is a LOT of 'booty call' action happening (well maybe not action, but the requests are certainly there). I am amazed at a couple of the profiles of the men who have sent me emails and winks...talking about female body parts and what they'd like to do with them. Then there are the guys who ask you after 1 email what your chest size is. The only credit I give these guys is that they are putting it out there honestly and while they are not my style, I'm sure they will find someone who will bite.
I tend to shy away from the guys who only want 'intimate encounters.' Not that I'm looking for a LTR, but something more sincere, more stimulating and more fun outside of the bedroom would be good. I'm a jewel and I won't just give my goods away to any ole guy!