Not to beat a dead horse here again, but.... I have gotten a few winks and emails lately from some very interesting local men. I have answered their winks/emails and yet have not gotten another response from them.. Is it what I am saying to them or are they getting my replies at all? Or could it just be that they wink and then realize I am just not their type. Any help on this issue would be helpful...
It's not just women that get emails/winks and then answer them and no response. I'm fairly new to this site, but I've been on Adult Friend Finder for years now before finding this site a short time ago. I have to give credit where credit is due, the people I have contact with/have met in person from this site are 1000% nicer and more caring than those off AFF. I can send out 25 emails to people that are a perfect match to me on AFF, and no reply. Here at least around 60% of the time I get a reply. It may be a "thanks......but no thanks" but at least they were considerate enough to take the time to respond to my email.
I can't really say why people here are so much nicer, but I will say don't waste your money on joining AFF.
Toots honey... I can't imagine anyone purposely not answering you. Your to much of a sweety. I've had lots of problems with the system, but things are slowly improving. I've had the best luck getting people here to contact me in yahoo.. I miss less messages that way.
Thanks for all your replies on this. I just get a bit frustrated with this whole issue. I mean when I reply to these men that would interest me I also include my personal email for them to reach me there. So that if they arent paid members they can still contact me... who knows. I just still wonder if something in my profile turns them off, or if they are reading my profile at all. Thanks all of you for helping out...
The same thing has happened to me .The few winks or even an occassional email I get saying how interesting my profile was and they can't wait to hear from me and then when I email them I never hear a word. I too wonder if it's me, my picture or profile or what. Hopefully it's the system. Any suggestons anyone????
i would have to say its probably because they are not paying members...I wink a men sometimes and when they wink back i am at a dead stand still.....i am not a paying member so I can't email them after the initial wink !!! HOPE this helps !!!