trevlya005 write: my problem is, i have never "been" with anyone before. and to me, its always easier to learn from experience, so when you want to be with an older woman its almost like correct training instead of training and then retraining ;)
Trev, if you don't mind me saying, you are very cute and very insightful; we seem to be in the same boat, even. And even though we are the same age (LOL), I think I would like to get to know you better!
Quite frankly, I think older men are definitely more attractive. I've met maybe a small handful of guys my age who would have the maturity and constitution to handle a girl like me (though they've never exactly proven it to me in a dating environment). On the other hand, though "they" say love is blind, I think you can reach a point where the age margin becomes ridiculous.
I'm beginning to lose faith in my generation. Curses. :/
I love Australian accents. It's funny, I've noticed that Aussie's use similar words to southern slang, like "I reckon", and a couple of other things! Yeah, southerners have that slow, sweet drawl that reminds you of whiskey and honey. At least mine does!LOL! I love those northern boys accents, too. That NY and upper east coast sound is hot!!
I'm with you Rockchick, it doesn't matter how old they are, it's they way you feel together. I've dated younger guys and I've dated older ones. I don't like guys that are old enough to be my Dad or anything like that, though! As far as younger dudes go, you can teach them a lot! and I mean a LOT!!! lol!
When I was a teenager, I was always attracted to older men. I figured it was becuase I lost my dad at a young age. Bruce Willis filled many a dream. Now that I am 33, I find that I am becoming attracted to younger men. So would Dr. Phil say that is because I missed out on youthful bodies...I mean activities.
OMG! OMG! You young puppies are bringing me to tears! I seem to be the oldest one here by far. Listen to the "OLD MATRIARCH!" We seniors still have it "going on" (as my granddaughter calls it) and really enjoy the dating scene. We have learned a lot in our years and know what we want in a relationship. As for age, I was seeing a guy who was 49 yrs old and I was a year younger than his exwife. I have date all ages and my late husband was 11 yrs older than me. It is a mental thing as well as physical. I just promised my sons that I wouldn't date anyone younger than them.
my problem is, i have never "been" with anyone before. and to me, its always easier to learn from experience, so when you want to be with an older woman its almost like correct training instead of training and then retraining ;)
There was mention that maybe young guys are starting to look more at the bigger lady. But if you look at the videos on tv, most of them are not BIG. They just have larger hindquarters. Baby Got Back. It used to be the heavy metal groups were accused of showing all the young, skinny $lut types, but if you look at just about any rap vid, all the women do is shake their money maker, while the guys stare, drool, grope, and have to have the words bleeped out because you know they aren't saying how much they want to go have a cup of coffee and get to know they're personality. I wouldn't be surprised if some of these guys just want to get a average sized gal with lots of junk in the trunk. I'm not sayin all of them, but I don't see women going on The Swan or the plastiv surgery show on E getting reverse liposuction!!
As for your question Trev, I'm not much older than you are, so I can't say for sure. I imagine that you are really an exception to the norm, being that you are a younger man who is excited about dating an older women, instead of being intimidated by the idea. It would make sense to me, that older women are not looking for the things some young men are looking for. So, in your case, you'd probably have to spend some time digging yourself out of the "Young Man/Player" stereotype and assure them that you are the opposite of all of that. And good luck to you! I think it's great!
Welcome, again, to both of you! Always good to see new faces!
yea to me age dosn't matter.. actually i would perfer an older woman.. 30 to 47ish.. theres just a sexyness about older women.. dont get me wrong i enjoy women from 18 to 29 also!
now what i want to know, is do older women like younger men? on alot of those shows on TV you see older moms falling for the young guys, but it seems that on every dating site that i am on, (yes more than 2 lol) none of the older ladies want a man that is 10 years or 5 years younger than they are.
do the older women just try and cover up that they do not want younger men? i would sure hope they do not feel embarassed about it at all!
You are so right...as always. Age is just a number. I feel that people should stop worrying about age and get on with living, for life is too short to worry about Mathematics, (boring subject anyway...... never understood Pye except when it had whipped cream on it !!)
Be who you want to be and enjoy all life has to offer. Don't regret not doing something because of other people's expectations of you and your age.
Don't I just woffle soooo much?!....hehehe. (JMO as always!)
Best Wishes Shula x