What's up? I was at one time able to start my own thread in the general messages forum, but now I can't. But I can upload a picture when replying to a thread already on the board? Personally, if I had to chose I'd rather be able to start my own threads. I'm a gold member. Why was I able to start my own thread days ago, but can't now?

Is anyone else here having problems with this?

white dragon where r u sweetie ..

I reckon it would be a good idea to put a "Thankyou for the wink. Good luck in your search" section in the Winks choices box. Then non paying members could wink back to say thanks without the other party getting the wrong idea. (Saying good luck in your search tells them to move on!!)
Just another one of my thoughts!
Shuie x

Danielle, I guess the old phrase"when ya play Ya pay" sound about right???
I agree, why should I have to pay first, before I know it really works..... been there , done that sista!
mello_1

I retract my previous statement regarding timing of posts. Thanks for speeding things up!

WOW.....

Dannielle2223 if you like the guy give him a wink if he like you he can email back. good luck

Darlin' there's nothing wrong with your profile.. As long as it is honest, direct, with no hidden agendas...leave it the way it is. Forget the fluff.. call it as you see it. I would invite everyone to do that when looking for a potential mate...Know what you want; say what you want. No church here, but the truth shall set you free!!!

Hi

this is Canamex. Would you review and comment on my profile. I may know what women(in general like) but there is no way that I would attempt to think like a woman, men have treid to do that for centuries and always failed


Thanks

I spent 2 days scouring the profiles and they all run together.
Advice to the guys especially....please go back and reread you profile as if you were a woman. We all think we are good lovers, we all like to cuddle and some of us are really into sex... but with the right person.
I want to know enough about a guy's interests to know if we have something to do together when we are not in the sack. What would we talk about? What basis do we have for a friendship? Why is this guy the one that I might be special to?
I have to find something in a profile that calls my name. I answered one where he was looking "FOR A BRIGHT WOMAN". I was willing to put myself out there for that one. I also liked the gentleman that said "PERFECTION NEITHER OFFERED OR EXPECTED." Now that is a realist. Well I am still communcating with one of them.
Just give us something personal about your likes and/or dislikes....areas of interest. Think about the way others read what you say.
Just my humble opinion. I love the sight and continue to meet some awesome folks. Most everybody has been extremely honest and forthcoming. I appreciate that. I respond to more winks if I knew more about you.
And finally...Post pictures...guys...girls don't judge books by the cover. Many of the ones that have emailed me privately, have been just gorgeous...why not let us know up front.?

Hi,

As far as I can tell the blue preferred tag means he/she is a paying member.

Hi all. I'm pretty sure the blue preferred tag means that the person is a paying member here. Thus he/she can use all features available on the site.

can anyone tell me what the blue preferred tag is on peoples profiles?? i cant seem to find out what it means????

hey this site makes me mad the whole point of a free 14 is to see if you like it enough to pay for it but if you cant use all the stuff on here why would you pay for something that you dont know is gonna work i am interested in a guy on here and i have no way of telling him that the site could at least allow you an email or two

Have been a away a while and I'm not sure what the new "Preferred" buttons mean? Can anyone help me out?

hi i am from nr lincoln spend a lot of time on the pc during the day due to work. i would love to meet up with females / couples in the lincs / notts area for some daytime fun. i can participate or watch as both excite me. dave

Im a small town kansas girl who loves to talk. Anyone interested drop me some lines

Ashley in kansas

Hi.. Just joined and still trying to find my way around. I live in Florida but travel alot. I going to be doing an extended stay in Southern Maryland for about 3 months. So wondering if there any of you attractive ladies out there? I hope so... Not looking for a one night stand. Would like to chat and go from there..

Hi, I'd like the opportunity to e-mail/talk with other women in my area. I'm in a relationship with a great woman and am only seeking friends. Bi and straight women encouraged. I have a great BBM roommate whose a real sweetheart.

Hi, Lisa in Oklahoma here. would love to meet someone within driving distance, but open to pen pals too. Lover of the bad boy look, but am looking for a good guy...................