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Am I a fat, ugly bitch, or is my boyfriend retarded?
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Posted on Sun, Feb 27, 2005 23:23

Any time we get in a fight, my boyfriend calls me a fat ugly bitch. I'm starting to believe it and want some outside opinions. Help me!

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2011 21:45

What the heck!!

Any man that would spout something like that to you doesn't love you for who you are!  In the back of my mind I would think that he feels like he can do better, as if he's slumming it with you on his arm.

Leave him because he's not worth your self doubt, love, time, and tears.  I know I'm late in my reply, but I hope you have kicked him- because once things like that issue forth from someone's mouth...you know it's deep in their heart.

Leave him!

 



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Posted on Mon, Sep 19, 2011 08:45

Not fat and ugly for sure!!!! If you are around the carolina area I'd love to meet you,if not i hope we could chat



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Posted on Fri, May 20, 2011 16:39

I don't think anyone here is truly qualified to gauge whether you are in fact a bitch. You are fat (like me), you aren't ugly though. So his record is 1/1 so there's about a 50% chance that you are, in fact a bitch.

The real question you should be asking yourself is.. is being a bitch really a bad thing?



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Posted on Sat, Feb 05, 2011 08:32

Hi BigSexy81, it's nearly 6 years since you posted that question, but it still wrenched my heart. It's a terrible thing that this meathead was being so hurtful to you.

I hope he's long gone and you've got a man who appreciates you.

We all deserve that :0)



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Posted on Sun, Sep 19, 2010 11:47

Well, I hate to be the bearer of harsh news but....you encourage the behavior because you stick around and are available to the meathead. Anyone who is going to stick with a fellow like this subconsciously believes what he says and it absolves you of responsibility making him the bad guy. If you weren't with him, you would subconsciously choose another guy like him to punish you, because in the end, it all comes down to you. You attract what you put out. When you feel good about yourself, the man you attract will also feel good about you.

I say this not to be mean, but to start eye-opening. Been there done that. Lose him and go to counselling and you'll find you attract a whole different other kind of man when you do.

Warmly,

Tori

 

 

 



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Posted on Thu, Aug 19, 2010 09:56

Always remember that you are a beautiful woman and he has no idea what it is to love and respect someone. Move on and be happy.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 28, 2010 11:39

Cause we can?



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Posted on Thu, May 20, 2010 05:50

you look very beauiful to me



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Posted on Mon, May 17, 2010 04:10

hi sexy wont to chatt im mark



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Posted on Wed, Sep 23, 2009 05:51

Please don't believe what he's saying to you because my ex boyfriend used to say the same things to me. I am a strong BBW and I never let what he said bring me down because I know I have a good heart and am very beautiful and can find anyone else. You should feel the same, you are beautiful and strong and whatever he doesn't like someone else will. Ask him, if you are so ugly and fat, why is he with you. Tell him to leave so someone better can have you.

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Posted on Tue, Sep 22, 2009 18:45

Why are people responding to a query that is over 4 years old?



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Posted on Sat, Sep 19, 2009 11:01

I didn't need to see a picture or even know you to answer that question, he's retarted.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 17, 2009 20:53

BigSexy, start living up to your name! Be big and sexy. Know who you are. Have confidence in yourself. Find the courage to dump the loser.



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Posted on Tue, Aug 25, 2009 03:53

Then why are you still with him? He doesn't deserve a beautiful woman like you. On this site, you can find plenty of men who desire women with shapes like ours. Just look and you will find one.



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Posted on Thu, Jul 09, 2009 06:27

He is definitely retarded, do not let any one make you believe you are less than a beautiful woman. Get rid honey, you desserve better than to be with a sub normal idiot.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 08, 2009 03:47

He is retarded, you are a beautiful size and shape and very very very sexy



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Posted on Sun, May 03, 2009 02:52

your not a fat ugly &&$*$..your bf doesnt have a clue...leave him



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Posted on Sat, Feb 14, 2009 09:22

I think you deserve each other. Do you think the ?R? word is any less negative and hurtful than ?fat, ugly bitch?? If you don?t think so ask mom of a child with a disability that has come home crying because they were called a ?retard? on the playground. Shame on all of you hypocrites.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 18, 2008 10:21

your boyfriend is just retarded.



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