Is there any way to communicate with someone who has "caught you eye" without paying for the membership just yet?

I have seen posts where people give "shout outs" to people that they want to make contact with. I have also seen posts where people have given their e-mail address in code by capitalizing the first letter of each word in a sentence.

Jackit,
My advice would be to pay for one months membership. The Instant Messenger is useless and if you are waiting for one particular person.....they may never be on there!
In one month you can e-mail as many people as you want and view who's been looking at you...cool....i'll tell you!
Cancel it after a month and hopefully by then you'd of made loads of contacts.

Just my opinion, yet again....hehehe

Good Luck Hun
Shula

the instant messenger from this site.