Where are all the FFA's? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Jan 22, 2005 08:46


    There seems to be plenty of men for the BBW on here but where are the women looking for a BHM?
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  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 15:36



    LokiRook write:
    then too should you have a problem with people who limit their searches to someone who has a degree, who is intelligent, doesnt live at home, who likes someone taller than them, someone who isnt married or defines an age range. Because its the same thing, really. Youre defining what you want in a match, physically and otherwise. Im not going to be attracted to someone who is sickly thin, unable to challenge intellectually and who lives in his parents basement playing EverQuest because he doesnt know what he wants with his life. SO im going define what i am looking for, in all honesty. This is the internet, not in person, and some things make up for what is lost - personality is hard to really see until you mean face to face. Until then, attraction has to have some pull.



    YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!! That's it right there! This is the internet, should be taken lightly anyway! If I have 100 different points to chose from what I want in a man, I might as well put down exactly what I want. Doesnt mean I wont go out with someone who doesnt fit all 100 points, but wouldnt that be nice?
  • View author's info posted on Aug 23, 2005 12:48


    then too should you have a problem with people who limit their searches to someone who has a degree, who is intelligent, doesnt live at home, who likes someone taller than them, someone who isnt married or defines an age range. Because its the same thing, really. Youre defining what you want in a match, physically and otherwise. Im not going to be attracted to someone who is sickly thin, unable to challenge intellectually and who lives in his parents basement playing EverQuest because he doesnt know what he wants with his life. SO im going define what i am looking for, in all honesty. This is the internet, not in person, and some things make up for what is lost - personality is hard to really see until you mean face to face. Until then, attraction has to have some pull.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 22, 2005 15:19


    Oh...Theo, sorry..BUT I so have to reply to that bit about...BBW being either hypocrites, or self loathers???
    Just because we might/or might not date bigger men?
    I can assure you I am not a hypocrite, and I am most certainly not a self loather....I happen to be a slef assured, confident women, who rates personality above looks!
    I dont give a toss about what someone looks like, if they can make me laugh,make me feel comfortable, but just because I am big, DOES NOT mean I have to date someone who is?
    I go for a fella that can show me he is genuine, honest,funny and all those things...He could be a skinny man, or he could be a 20 stone man.
    I really have got cross at your comments, but then again..You are young, maybe you just need to see a bit more of life, before you post such comments.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 22, 2005 13:40


    I was wondering where all of the FFA are, too! LOL!

    I wish one would admire me!
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2005 16:05


    I have dated all shapes and sizes. I prefer a BHM because their personalities are fantastic!
    I find that most of the men who contact me are thin/skinny even underweight. Honestly I really rather a Santa Belly ! They are just too too cute and way sexy romantic !!!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 28, 2005 08:20


    I agree with chubbygirl...I LOVE big men but by the same token I also value honesty, sincerity and thoughtfulness in a man whether he is large or not!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 26, 2005 04:57


    Thank you for your comments.
    It's good to know there are some of you out there. Are there any women from the UK looking for a BHM though?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 25, 2005 19:23


    good point
  • View author's info posted on Jan 25, 2005 03:26


    I think most of the bbw's on this site are looking for bhm's! You're definitely in the right place!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 25, 2005 01:31


    Well I am sure there are pleanty of women such as myself who are BBW looking for a BHM .
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