I just wish that all of you women wouldn't change (unless it's deemed medically or psychologically necessesary). I am a man that just LOVES to hold a woman and be able to know she's there. Another thing, I've almost always found that big women are usually big in REALLY important places (I am very definatly a B**B man, do I hear 44FFF?). Also, big women are usually far less neurotic about everything. I don't know, maybe I just feel much more comfortrable around you real woman.
historygal i like your adittude- words from the wise.
everyone seems to be really nice.(so far on this site) i just started looking at this site because i know there is someone out there who will like me 4 me.
What a boring world this would be if everyone was the same size, the same type, or the same flavor. I guess I would be what some would consider a ssbbw, which doesn't mean much to me, but if you want to label me, feel free.
well as for me i think im a VERY sexy BBW. I luv my shape.
i have a big BEHIND! and some nice jugs.
i just have a few problem areas. And I'm working on that. So at least by the end of the summer, I will look exactly how I want to look maybe a size 10/12.
I'm SEXY, CHECK ME OUT FOR YOURSELF!
jenny, for the most part on this site , the ppl that i have chatted with seem to be very nice and down to earth type of folks.. as for me i treat everyone with respect. when i meet someone , whether it is online or in person, i want to get to know them. and the way i see to do that is to be truthful and respectful with them.
if you dont treat ppl properly, how are ever going to find some good friends and even someone to share your life with.
It's definitely all in a person's perception. I love this site because unlike other sites where, the first thing a guy asks -usually this is right after he says, i'm not into looks, I'm into the inner beauty, then asks how much you weigh and what size you are. Its crazy! Everyone here actually seems so cool and nonjudgemental-what a change!
I think that there isn't a specific definition for the term BBW. Its going to depend on what the person interested thinks. I'm a confident person. I am proud of who I am. I've never had a self esteem problem, nor have I had problems going out with men once I joined sites like this one to find the men that like women like me.
emtchicky, this is totally off the subject, but I have to give u a HUGE CONGRATULATIONS for losing that weight, thats a phenomenal effort, I have to lose about 200 lbs myself and have lost 25 so far, and already feel much better for it, but my lord...thats amazing... u look great ... good on you girl !!!
I don't quite understand this stuff either. But... when i was at my heaviest nobody would even look twice at me because i was "too big" but even after losing 160 pounds some people still won't look twice- but forget em! i just find it funny now that some people don't consider me a bbw although i still am a size sixteen. But it beats the 30/32 i used to be. I dunno- i just figure that I love my loose skin and my fat rolls :)