Kimmi, who are the ones making the most noise about black women dating white men. Yet its ok for the brothers to be dating white women and more younger and older are doing the same. Why is that? I dont see any attractive black or white women knocking down my door and Im open to sll women. Im a 6' 2", 275 pound BHM, and now you see why I dont get my door knocked down. I LOVE big girls with big breasts, something I can enjoy along the ride of life. I love to fluffiness of a good woman who truly loves her man.
I feel fortunate that my work involves internationalism and diversity at a university campus. I've travelled extensively and work with international/diverse populations over time on campus. I grew up in and came back to Western PA...not much native color here, but the campus is very diverse...thank God! I can say that I've been given more direct, open and sometimes blunt attention from men of color compared to white men, North American at least. My opinion, though maybe not right, is that other cultures, including African-American, do not have the same cultural barriers to crossing the race line, or the size line. Men of color helped me appreciate my size and red hair as a young adult. It was confusing at first because I wasn't use to that, in fact, it was sort of scary...I was socialized to believe that I was fat and ugly. Culturally, I feel that white men are socialized to only accept white skinned, thin "Barbie." I'm not generalizing, many have overcome this, I know. But, I believe it is hard for them "come out," especially when young and experiencing peer pressure and ridicule. I have known nice guys who get treated like crap out of desperation to keep "Barbie." I've met guys on here that admit their attraction to BBW or women of color is a "secret admiration" and this is a safe place. I find it sad that they don't feel they can be themselves in their social environment...I don't blame them really, they know the area they live in and the people around them. Everyone needs to feel safe, comfortable and accepted. A small, rural area is much different than a large urban area. Geez, if you don't drive a Ford or Chevy here you are looked at crosseyed! My late husband and I rented a cabin just East of here for our honeymoon...he drove a Mazda pickup at the time...after hiking, canoeing and fishing, we stopped at a local bar to pick up a six pack...he was surrounded by locals and asked..."so you like divin ...
Hi I am Richard single white male and im from lockport ny but i live in Niagara Falls NY. I am looking for a big beautiful women , age does not matter to me.You must like to go walking , country music , picnics ,dinner out ,i love football (Bills) and hockey ( sabres).I like playing pool ,watch WWE, and play assorted video games.I would like to have someone that has a good persontilty does not get upset easly. Likes to cuddle , women....
I love to laugh and joke around .I would like a woman who knows how to cook it is a turn on to me. do you like giving an reciving massages with lotions and oils .a working woman would be a plus but at least a type of income would help .I make it on my own with my dissabilty income but belive in sharing expences .
Well if this sounds good an or want to know any more feel free to ask. Oh I am looking for someone who is honest ,not a game player,has comuncation,also all I can say is please don't judge the book by the cover till you read it from the inside or you will miss out on what is says from the heart.....
Well i myself have dated 4 white men i am 31 years of age,the first one was when i was 19, i wanted to try something new,but he was creepy, he kept trying to get me drunk and he brought this backpack on the date and he kept staring at the bag the whole night,his eyes were basically glued to the backpack,then he started sweating like crazy as he watched the bag,i ended that date early, the next guy i met on the metro north train into Connecticut,he was rich,confident and fabulous, but i soon found out he had a wife and two teenage kids,i was upset because he did not tell me,i found out from his friend,the third guy was young wanna be rap artist,i just could not take it,and the last one was too young for me but he was very passionate,i think if he was a bit older i could have continued to see him but i just didn't feel comfortable with his age he was 22 and i was 30 at the time. I do not discriminate, because most men are alike believe it or not.
I believe friends can fall in love. I believe love should last a life-time. I believe dreams DO come true. Maybe we can make a dream together. I think romance is holding hands on a rainy afternoon... Caresses while we watch our favorite movies... Gazing at the stars while talking about nothing special... Holding each other when we need comfort... Making each other laugh when we need to smile... Always being there for each other even when we need nothing. I'm a nice guy who just turned 38 and looking for another nice lady to begin sharing these times with. I really DO believe dreams come true.
I,m from Sweden and...yes born white. In my country this issue wouldn't ever been discussed because as I understand it, here it's little bit like upgrading yourself being together with a black woman. Anyway from my POV.
But I don't like black guys from Africa( political refugees? Hell no!)some/many uneducated, different culture background i.e., third world, living on welfare here because they can't, won't get a job and being with Swedish women while their own because of the mens culture/Islam/religion/being stupid attitude must stay at home BEHIND closed doors. Boy, do I despise/hate those kinda men
kinyua write: *waits for crowd of angry black women chanting that white men are heaven and black men are s##t*
Guess you are STILL waiting, huh? LOL!! Well, you will never hear that from me. I am with a white man now, but it is not because I am angry or that I do not like black men. I love black men. I love men, PERIOD. But more than that, I want to be with a man that appreciates a good woman and who wants a good woman to appreciate him.
In case you did not know, hun, if black men were the only men who had the capacity to be "problematic", then there would be no Lifetime Channel. LOL!! Lifetime has hours and hours of shows that show white men being "problematic" to white women.
I've dated men of all cultures and have enjoyed each relationship. Don't really look at skin color much unless he or one of his friends says something to the effect, actually. Just busy looking at and experiencing the amazing guy with so many different sides to him in front of me.
I would imagine cuz other people either:
1. Think cultural differences are too hard to work out b/w the two.
2. Concerned if each other's family will accept the partner and the difficulties that may lie ahead as a result. Or,
3. Too narrow-minded to understand the beauty of multiculturalism. (I would imagine this has got to be a very small % though.)
i date a black girl when i was 18 and i saw nothink wrong with it, i know some people wud look at us but if you like the person who cares, we liked each other and had fun together so wats the worry i say, she is the only black girl i've known personally but if i had tohe chance to date or meet any more black girls/women i get on with the as well.
I don't see anything at all wrong with it. The one thing that I know a lot of people have trouble with is not so much just the interracial aspect of it but the way the kids are treated when they are mixed. Most of the time, they are the ones that suffer from an interratial relationship.
BTW, Kimmie, I think you are beautiful and a man of any race should be proud to be with you!
Unfortunately we haven't had our second date yet as I've had lots of things come up leaving me little free time so it's harder for us to find free time at the same time, but somehow we'll get together again.