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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 05:59

well a simple hello and a smile is a good way to start. Maybe comment on the something you are both looking at at the same time.. Like if your in a store and she is looking at something comment on how much you like that too. She wont think your crazy. Most people like to talk to people they dont know, and can be friendly about it.. Just smile and say hello. its always a great way to start and if nothing else, you have made someone else smile for your kindness. Best of luck to you



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Posted on Fri, Apr 01, 2005 15:14

DON'T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY BUT IN MY LIFE BBW'S ARE HARDER TO APPROACH NOT ALL BUT ALOT ARE OVERLY PROTECTIVE OF THEM SELVES I KNOW THERE ARE ALOT OF DISHONEST PEOPLE OUT THERE BUT IT MAKES IT EXTRA DIFFICULT FOR THOSE WITH PURE MOTIVES TO APPROACH YALL I CAN HONESTLY SAY IVE BEEN DONE WRONG BY MORE BBWS THAN THOSE AVERAGE GIRLS BUT THAT MAY BE BECAUSE I PREFER BBWS.

  


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Posted on Thu, Mar 24, 2005 18:12

The one and only thing that you can do is: READ MY PROFILE & SEE WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR! It's a veritable novel, folks, which should answer many of the initial questions regarding who I am & what I'm looking for. Yet I still get e-mails from men old enough to be my father wanting to "hook up". *sigh*



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Posted on Wed, Mar 23, 2005 18:38

hi there maybe Ill go to hunington and go to the mall,i would love to run in to you..i live in weirton by the way.



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Posted on Mon, Mar 21, 2005 20:34

Whoa! Where did that come from???



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Posted on Tue, Dec 28, 2004 11:46

Hey all,

SBF 31 looking for fun in NJ. Holla!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 23, 2004 16:44

AS a XL lady..(Xtra Lovely)I think and believe its how I "display" myself..Show your confidence gals!!..Big is still beautiful..no matter what some others may say..Its important to believe in yourself..take pride in how you look..and if you have a wonderful, giving spirit like me..one day..someone will take notice..It only takes one..Be yourself..and above all..SMILE...Good Luck to all who are lookin for love..I too am waiting..patiently.

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2004 19:07

Eliza

I'm really glad that you like meeting men wiht brains - I guess there are not many lobotomised men out there even though maybe they may act like it.
Joking apart - i get fed sick of people thinking I'm boring 'cause I read some Modern books & also classics.

What a shame that you live in the USA and me in the UK - but e-mail me -- I'm sure we have a lot in common!



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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2004 12:24

Always look at her with a smile on your face, it makes you look intrested rather than her thinking ur just staring at her coz she's big. A flattering look is always welcome. Good look. xx



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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 13:00

I actually work at a mall, and very few men approach me. They do however smile and have small talk with me. Anyway, I would say to smile at her and approach her, but not in a creepy "what to go out" kind of why, because you just met her. But do show that you are interested, otherwise, we will just think you are "being nice", but not interested. like most men.

  


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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 11:59

In answer to your question, if I was in a mall and a guy wanted to talk to me, I would not be offended if he came over and said hi to me. I think I am a little skeptical about a man's sincerity in that setting but I am open to just about anything. I guess sometimes you just have to take a risk and go for it. That way you aren't wondering about the what if's. Happy Hunting. Chris

  


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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 11:02

Well my suggestion would be just to walk up and say hello,and if she gives you attitude or looks at you crazy then just move on. Be polite and respectful even if she doesn't want to talk to you.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 07:53

Well, really, it's the same as meeting anyone. But, I do know what you mean. I've never been good about having the confidence to approach total strangers and just start talking.

I think maybe a good way to try and start a conversation with someone you don't know is to as something simple, like what time it is, where a certain store in the mall is. Then maybe pay her a compliment like "I Like your hair" (yes, I know I would be far too scared to be that bold, but if someone approached me in that way, I'd respond)

Anyway, good luck to you :)



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