well a simple hello and a smile is a good way to start. Maybe comment on the something you are both looking at at the same time.. Like if your in a store and she is looking at something comment on how much you like that too. She wont think your crazy. Most people like to talk to people they dont know, and can be friendly about it.. Just smile and say hello. its always a great way to start and if nothing else, you have made someone else smile for your kindness. Best of luck to you
DON'T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY BUT IN MY LIFE BBW'S ARE HARDER TO APPROACH NOT ALL BUT ALOT ARE OVERLY PROTECTIVE OF THEM SELVES I KNOW THERE ARE ALOT OF DISHONEST PEOPLE OUT THERE BUT IT MAKES IT EXTRA DIFFICULT FOR THOSE WITH PURE MOTIVES TO APPROACH YALL I CAN HONESTLY SAY IVE BEEN DONE WRONG BY MORE BBWS THAN THOSE AVERAGE GIRLS BUT THAT MAY BE BECAUSE I PREFER BBWS.
The one and only thing that you can do is: READ MY PROFILE & SEE WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR! It's a veritable novel, folks, which should answer many of the initial questions regarding who I am & what I'm looking for. Yet I still get e-mails from men old enough to be my father wanting to "hook up". *sigh*
AS a XL lady..(Xtra Lovely)I think and believe its how I "display" myself..Show your confidence gals!!..Big is still beautiful..no matter what some others may say..Its important to believe in yourself..take pride in how you look..and if you have a wonderful, giving spirit like me..one day..someone will take notice..It only takes one..Be yourself..and above all..SMILE...Good Luck to all who are lookin for love..I too am waiting..patiently.
I'm really glad that you like meeting men wiht brains - I guess there are not many lobotomised men out there even though maybe they may act like it.
Joking apart - i get fed sick of people thinking I'm boring 'cause I read some Modern books & also classics.
What a shame that you live in the USA and me in the UK - but e-mail me -- I'm sure we have a lot in common!
I actually work at a mall, and very few men approach me. They do however smile and have small talk with me. Anyway, I would say to smile at her and approach her, but not in a creepy "what to go out" kind of why, because you just met her. But do show that you are interested, otherwise, we will just think you are "being nice", but not interested. like most men.
In answer to your question, if I was in a mall and a guy wanted to talk to me, I would not be offended if he came over and said hi to me. I think I am a little skeptical about a man's sincerity in that setting but I am open to just about anything. I guess sometimes you just have to take a risk and go for it. That way you aren't wondering about the what if's. Happy Hunting. Chris
Well, really, it's the same as meeting anyone. But, I do know what you mean. I've never been good about having the confidence to approach total strangers and just start talking.
I think maybe a good way to try and start a conversation with someone you don't know is to as something simple, like what time it is, where a certain store in the mall is. Then maybe pay her a compliment like "I Like your hair" (yes, I know I would be far too scared to be that bold, but if someone approached me in that way, I'd respond)