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Posted on Fri, Nov 12, 2004 20:07

You wait and see... when you least expect it... WHAM! it will hit you!.... sometimes the more we look for something (such as love) the less we find it, and when we stop... it comes walking in.

kisses to you baby!

Scoot

  


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Posted on Thu, Nov 11, 2004 06:27

now dont get me wrong, Im not being a whiner, lol.

I have a great life. I have a great job, a nice home, amazing kids. I dont think I should be thinking this much about that "missing piece" that I lose sight of how wonderful my life is.



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Posted on Thu, Nov 11, 2004 06:16

yes, long, but informative. You reinforced what I already knew. Thanks for the honesty.

I quit, lol. I have no lack of "admirers" so to speak, but none I would want as a part of my family.

I think maybe its just not in the cards for me. Its not fair, but then, when was life ever fair? lol

thanks again for your honesty.

  


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Posted on Wed, Nov 10, 2004 20:44

Hi Jailene.

That is a very truthful saying, in most cases ( i tell you that as a man) things get harder as we grow older, and you (people) have children, in our (men) case I think we are afraid of commitment by nature, and we disguise that by calling ourselves "players" because we don't dare to cross the line. ( no offense to all my playas in da house ). I tried to cross that line not too long ago, but it did not work out... well that's life in the big city. Personally i prefer a woman with no children because i 'know' what is Numero Uno for her, and is not me(men), Children will ALWAYS come first for a mother.

I am not trying to say that because women have children they have no chance... that is wrong, the race might get a little hard, but you are still in it.

One of my best friends has 2 kids, and I like her alot, and she likes me alot too, but we have different plans... if you ask me... would I give her a shot (for real, not just a brief relationship) knowing that she has 2 kids?... the answer is YES... not because of her only, because her 2 kids love me alot and i love them too.. and yes, I agree with you that kids need a father figure, and women need love too. I notice every time I go to visit her, we seem like a family, and I enjoy it, and I can sense the need on those kids for a male to look up to and talk and watch Sponge Bob with.

As of me, I have also (in many cases) the need to care for someone, not just get my freak on. LOL

Keep going girl!

Scoot

ps: this was a long post, huh?

  


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