I am looking for the women that God has chosen for me. I believe this women is a born again Christian who is actively serving God. I hope to find a women of integrity. Someone who enjoys having fun and likes to laugh.
Real love is when you give more to your better half, than you would to yourself. You don't see the differences, errors of present or past, true feeling from the heart (not worrying about the appearance - size, color - of the person). Someone who you would like to spend the rest of your life with.
Real Love is accepting your partner with no conditions,as is take it or leave it.Sharing caring trusting without thinking about it,eating breating your mate and enjoying every minute of it,wow i think i real love is cool!!
I can't offer to much advice in this department since I have yet to ever be "in Love". Even though I've been married twice... sounds funny, I know. I can tell you that Love is NOT enough to make a marriage work.... I can also tell you that Love IS neccessary to make a marriage work. Make sense? I've learned the hard way. I look forward to experiencing what real love for a mate is (after all, I know what it is not).
I agree with cue ball. But I want to add that love is also being able to have whole conversations with someone without uttering a word. True love is unconditional. Not like that of love for you children, but true love is knowing that even the bad habits of your mate are tolerable because, it really doesnt matter. You will love them no matter what. Through thick and thin. and that nothing and nobody in this world could come between it.
I'm sorry that sounds more codependant than love. Love for me is when you feel that special connection, when you can look in that other persons eyes and KNOW that there is not another person on this big world that you would rather be with. When you can accept that person regardless of thier flaws,knowing that they feel the same.Being able to have a conversation about anything at anytime not having to comprimising your own views. For me this is just a small piece.
Real love is when you want so much to please a certain person or persons more than you would for yourself. You want them happy even if it isn't convenient. There are different kinds of love. I am a mother and my love for my kids is unique and total. My love for Mark, my fiance' (met here at Large Friends) is very deep, and he feels the same way toward me. My relationship brings me great happiness. It just feels so totally right. Then I have love for friends and some family members.
And over all of it there is God's love...unconditional.