Hello there to all of the beautiful women here.i am a BHM,I don't seem to see any ladies who like us.I love large women,I think we larger folks have more desire and passion.We love life more,and we're so much dag gum better looking.So to all of you big people I love you all. Eddie B.
you go girl! I love the way you just exude confidence and supreme sassiness! Best of luck to you in your search - there's someone for all of us, and I think this site is a great way to bring us together! I'm new to the site myself, and will be upgrading my membership soon, I think - I hate not being able to see who has viewed my profile!
About the above discussion about what it means to be sexy...in general I agree with what has been written in the posts above (besweet, rockchickbbw, et al).
However, we do see the body. It may be true that we are brainwashed about what is sexy/beautiful. The body is what we see first. Then we perceive the persona/spirit of the individual. We do note size and shape,etc and we can appreciate/attracted a wide variety of people for various reasons. The personality enhances or detracts from what is given/what we perceive through our sight in aan obvious of more subtle way...my numerous cents worth today!
Smplystriving write: *Side note* How adorable is Mister Scoot? *fanning* It's really too bad that his profile says he doesnt prefer those of the darker persuasion, but everyone has their thing and I still think that he's a great guy, and really helps make this site a good one. *kicking rocks at preferances* j/k ~*Simply*~
Thank you so very much!... You have such great words,and I appreciate them. :)
I should say that you are quite Foxy !
VERY TRUE besweet ...sexy is a state of mind ;) look at Mick Jagger (personally Ewwwwww!!) but women think he is sexy , but thats cause its his confidence that probably does it ....
A lot of models arent by any means sexy .... they LOOK pretty, but the s-ex appeal just isnt there .... and a lot of models confidence is bad as well ...
if you feel sexy , U exude sexy , means you ARE sexy !!
just wanted to see some more postings on this subject, glad everyone is suporting each other.
Just want ot say to wannaplayto9:
YOU may not see your self as a sexy MODEL type, but you can always see your self as a sexy woman. SEXY is NOT how your body looks, not its sizeor shape, sexy is totally in your mind. how YOU precieve yourself and present yourself to others and your attitude towards s-x.
It is all in the mind. society has been brainwashed about what sexy is how it looks nad the problem is that we come to accept it as a whole, we have to break out of that and individually rethink what is sexy to us and promote it within ourselves. so those that come in contact with us think differently too,. May start a chain reaction if enough of us people of size boost our self esteem and start doin it HUH?????
so why can't you be sexy??????and your attractive so why not a model????????