In this day and age of on-line dating, why the fear of putting up a photo? I was using the search feature on this site and after 20 pages, 10 profiles per page there are only one or two profiles with photos per page. I have been told that it is superficial to just go by photo. True, but do you really want me to finally meet you and you do not look like the picture I made up of you in my head? That would be a waste of both of our time. Please, I am old, decrepid and I still post my ugly mug for the world to see. I sure do not want anyone to write to me that when meeting, there is nothing about me that is attractive to that person. Just my two cents.