Do peope in the BBW 'community' have an opinion on at what a BBW is?
I consider myself to be one, but maybe others would view me as an SSBBW?
It's all relative, of course, but do the expectations of BBW admirers correspond with we have to offer?
In my experience, many men say they want a big girl with curves when they actually want a girl with huge boobs but who is otherwise a size 12/14*. Then they are horrified when they are contacted by someone who is size 20+*.
Are they looking in the right place? or is my perception affected by the tendency we all have to think of ourselves as typical?