I adore big guys but... Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Jan 15, 2011 16:44


    I adore big guys but I wonder why so many try to play/act the "big sweet teddy bear" type?
    Help me out here guys...There's nothing wrong with a sweet man, but there's an overwhelming number of overweight/large men who think that they are expected by women to be:
    jolly
    overly sweet
    in the background/ submissive/ passive
    shy

    I say, be yourself and don't try to play a role!
    If you're lovable and naturally sweet, more power to you. But guys, don't feel that because you're of a larger stature that you have to hide under the "always-a-friend-nothing-more" stereotype.
    Just be you :)
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  • View author's info posted on Sep 30, 2012 12:52


    SMH i know im late to the party but you guys gotta be kiddin me..
    Yes im a good guy.. well over the years ive mellowed...lol.. but im still the life of the party.. I know im an asshole to ppl who dont know me.. i have a smartass mouth and im sarcastic as hell..
    I will not change to fufill a role... im jus over 600 lbs.. but i am still a good man.. any1 of them women would be lucky to be with me...BOOOOM
  • View author's info posted on Aug 26, 2012 17:25


    Im a cute old fat guy. so what? I can be an asshat too..I am naturally shy at 1st, but after that you cant shut me up.and hell if Im ugly. I aint brad pitt, but then again he aint me.ha!If your in the s.f.v. area of so cal hit me up! I love to party and carry on!

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 26, 2011 22:50


    i believe we are put in that position to be the shoulder to cry on but the never the one to cry over after so much of being told "your a really nice guy but i dont like you that way" we just kinda fall into the routine of being the teddy bear in the background. from personal experience i always felt like the always a friend and nothing more but maintained my sense of self
  • View author's info posted on Feb 05, 2011 01:33


    I totally agree. It took me a long while to realize this for myself. I am a nice and friendly guy but I'm alos myself. I do think other BHMs should know this. Thanks for "putting it out there".
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