AGREED! The men sure do not seem very interested to contact or stay in contact if i email them first. This is my second time trying this site and same thing both times. Nothing! I wish there were a site for BBW that was as active as match.com etc, where the guys were really interested in actually pursuing something more than one email.....ugh!
I completely understand how you feel. I have been on for about 2 weeks now and i have had maybe 3 views, if that. It seems that i all i attract anymore are scammers. What is up with that???? Anyway, good luck to you.