I tried this site a couple of years ago without much luck. I just updated my profile and paid for one month - I'll give it one more shot before giving up entirely on it. I just haven't been very impressed in the past with the results.
Hopefully this time someone makes a believer out of me! :-)
I think the main problem is that this site doesn't have as many members, and there is something wrong with the way the LF matches people. It isn't you. I thought the same thing for awhile but I realize now it is the site.
I started on eharmony, seniorfriendfinder and LF all within a couple days of each other. I've had hundreds of people view my profile with a few contacts - in comparison - here I have had about 30 views. 30 views vs hundreds on another site?
I'd say it is something to do with LF, but they won't explain their procedure to me, Ive asked.