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Posted on Mon, Aug 25, 2008 21:53

I would really like to know if there are any men who could really love a BBW.

I am one.

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Posted on Fri, Feb 15, 2013 23:58

I've found in my dating life, like some one previously stated that there seems to be an assumption that because I'm a bigger woman I'm easy because I'm desperate. This upsets me on one level because it's a sad and incorrect assumption, but on the other hands for the men who can't deal with or accept that I'm not easy at all, it weeds them out. I'm confident that I will find the person I am meant to be with and they will love me just as I am.  Good luck to everyone.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 08, 2013 07:59


  1. i think bigger girls a




    re sexy!!!! I admit in high school I was afraid to talk to or being seen with a bbw, but that's society's fault. They make it seem like there's something wrong with you. My last girlfriend was 5'8" 260 size 20/22 in the beginning yes I LOVED playing with her 44DD boobs, but then I started to focus on her sexxxxy soft belly, she could not to this day EVER understand why????? She never accepted the fact that a guy can actually find a bigger girl sexy???? And once we broke up, she hit the gym :-(. I've been with both sexy(big girls) and skinny (bleh) , and sticks figures are only good when plying hang man. I wish society would STOP putting in everybody's head that they have to be a size 6 or smaller to be sexy. Look it goes both ways, for if you're confident you'll feel good about yourself and attract more people, that goes for a guy or a girl.



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Posted on Fri, Oct 12, 2012 05:57

I am a ssbbw and have had a hard time finding someone to love me for me. I'm a hard worker, honest,faithful and (I think) alot of fun to be with. I figure something must be wrong with me. :-(

  I'm obviously looking in the wrong places, or perhaps they don't exist here in Southern illinois!! LOL I know my profile pic isn't the best in the world as I look mad at the world.. but I just hateeeee having my picture taken!



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Posted on Thu, Oct 11, 2012 13:43

youre cute



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Posted on Thu, Sep 27, 2012 13:48

There are alot of men out there who love us big girls......Society tells us that to be accepted we have to be smaller then a size 12.....I dont think so!!!!! what gets me are the guys who say they are totally into bigger chicks but on the other side of the coin think we are so desperate for acceptance and love that we are willing to jump into bed with them immediately...... i am down for a good time and all but even that has limits.....

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Posted on Sat, Jul 14, 2012 10:27

Of course there are. Im one of those men you seek. I was married for 8 1/2 yrs to a bbw, but she went looking outside our relationship even though I was giving her what she needed. Her self esteem went down hill from the guys with 6 pack abs, yet she never met one of them. Fluffy, Im still single and looking. I havent found a woman interested in me thats single/divorced, widowed or legally separated. I am divorced and have the papers to prove it. and Im 45 so to be 46.  I been with a woman 13 yrs older and it was very nice. Just dont want the grown children to make decisions for we are the adults. Do you know of any single, available women wanting this guy. Let me know, even if its you, wink.

Hugs and Kisses  Thomas

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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2011 18:58

i have alot of sellf confidence and i love myself and i am a BBW .



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Posted on Mon, Aug 15, 2011 07:51

I just read the posts on this forum for the first time & felt that I had to comment on the two posts that said a size 14/16 isn't considered a large woman. (Is this why the users are no longer available? Were they afraid of too many people disagreeing with them?)

I get so sick & tired of BBW's who say that being a size 14 or 16 isn't considered a BBW. All of my teen & adult life I had been a size 14 & 16 and was constantly being made fun of for being "fat" & didn't get the guys like my thinner friends did. The junior & senior proms passed me by because I didn't have anyone to go with.

I am no longer those sizes and would be THRILLED if I could get back to where I once was since I now have a myriad of health problems due to my weight and poor eating habits.

I've attended BBW dances and overheard women commenting on other women who were at the smaller spectrum of the BBW scale(in other words, sizes 14, 16, 18), saying "What are THEY doing here? THEY don't belong here!" I mean, really, who the heck did these women think they were? Just because the women were smaller than the ones putting their respective feet in their mouths didn't mean that they weren't considered BBW's to the rest of society's eyes. The smaller women had every right to be at those dances & I believe that the larger BBW's were just jealous of them & felt that many of the guys who were at these dances would be attracted to the smaller BBW's which is why they made their nasty comments.

I guess it doesn't matter if you're thin or overweight, some women are just so critical of other women when they really should learn to be accepting & tolerant of one another since this is why they were attending these dances in the first place. They wanted to feel comfortable & accepted where at a regular bar or dance club they wouldn't be. I truly feel that jealously is such a waste of time!

Just my two cents worth!!!!



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Posted on Mon, Jun 13, 2011 14:16

Yes, it is absolutely possible to love a BBW. Let's look at the levels:

1) Large women don't break. Tall, short or in between, when you hug a BBW, by God, you know you're hugging a woman! You hug her, she hugs back and you feel closer.
2) Self-confidence. Big women know their big. A big woman that knows she is big and loves herself for who she is is someone to grab a hold of. She has a developed sense of self, and from my experience, doesn't play games. Flip side is a BBW that knows who she rarely takes crap from anyone. She probably has experience being on her own and isn't afraid, so she doesn't have to settle.
3) Sense of humor. Think about it: If you had to deal with anorexic stick figures and the media telling you how much you suck, you develop a thick skin and a sense of humor or a willingness to buy ammo by the case.

So yeah, a man can love a BBW. All he has to have is eyes, an IQ north of his shoe size and a desire to love someone.



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Posted on Thu, Jan 13, 2011 19:50

i always wonder what a guys real idea is of a big girl. Cuz like i said ealier... 14/16 really isnt that big AT ALL. Thats maybe a few extra pounds and some curves but thats not big by any means! Unless you're 5'0"

They say they like a big but or big boobs or whatever... but not all fat chics have big boobs.. they're just fat! Seriously what attracts you to that?? Even on a site like this i'm still skeptical.

 



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Posted on Thu, Jan 13, 2011 19:46

im sorry but a 14/16 isnt a big girl.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 10, 2010 02:18

silly question woman ......yes of course u r gorgeous !



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Posted on Wed, Oct 06, 2010 00:31

ever since I was young the only women I were atracted to were bbw. I need a girl who is at least a size 14/16 to be turned on at all. I could never be with a skinny chick.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 14, 2010 11:12

100% yes



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Posted on Mon, Jul 12, 2010 14:46

I hope so. Thats why I came to this site. I am a ssbbw. Hope to find someone who is attracted to me, who is not just playing games.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 11, 2010 00:21

it is possible to love bbw's , i find the extra pounds on a women more sexy

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Posted on Thu, May 27, 2010 07:01

Well I am around 5ft 10" and weigh a bit
So big girl in my eyes

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Posted on Thu, May 13, 2010 10:07

I'm not ashamed to admit I'm totally turned on by BBWS,and especially when they're in bathing suits!I do get ribbed from time to time about liking them bigger,but that's how I roll!



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Posted on Mon, May 03, 2010 15:11

It is very much possible to love BBW's. I especially love those who have beautiful faces. I will admit that I am attracted to full-bosomed women, Most BBW's are full-figured. I like them even more when they are nice to have a chat with.



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