What about us older plus size bbw? Are there any men out there in Australia who are attracted to us older women (over 50's)? I just seem to get emails ad winks from guys young enough to be my son. Iam very flattered but..........
I have no problem with younger men -- as long as they are interested in seeing me in PUBLIC as well as in private. You know? There are a lot of guys that want their BBW fetish to remain a total secret from friends and family; and I suspect it is the same way for younger men that like older women.
Harold and Maude is one of my favorite movies. Yeah, it was over the top -- see seeming to be in her eighties and he in his teens -- but I'd be willing to be with a man as young as 33 if he were not embarrassed to include me in gatherings with his friends, etc. To me it's not about age at all. I'm equally open to being with a young-thinking 70-year-old.
The two main concerns I would have about a long-term relationship with a much younger man is (1) that he could be okay with the fact that he has a long more jing (or energy) than me; and (2) that he's okay with my being past childbearing age.
I don't find it likely that I would end up with a much younger man, but then again I had several serious relationships in the past 20 years with men close to 20 years younger than me.
You know I wonder the same thing. Lets face it. Yes we are large and lovely and I have no doubt probably a lot of us as healthy as our skinny counterparts but you have to look at a small bit of reality. The being out of breath (and not just because he is sooooo finnne), and with so many things that rub together on a regular basis..lolol a man who gets involved with a bbw really has to be able to let those things be okay. Oh sure the infatuation with bbw's will be there but when the clothes come off, will it still be there? God love the men who know what it really means to be involved with women like us. I have been with a man or two who had a fantasy about being with a large woman but when he actually saw one of us naked it was a total shock to him. Poor thing was traumatized let him tell it...lol. The younger bbw's might not have the slight imperfections that we have as we get older...YET!! I guess its just like the skinny women who find that age spot or that extra wrinkle, or that pimple in a place that was never there before.
Im 55 (just turned) and yes its a struggle to keep that DIVA persona going...lolol but I try. I just hope to meet someone who knows that with that fantastic, beautiful, body and personality of us older BBW's come a few hurdles to jump over and it would be nice to know that there is someone on the other side that will give you the time to get over it.
Hi! onthebeach On reflection you are right. Maybe I am gullible and after reading a few other blogs are starting to wonder if these are genuine emails or just men seeking entry into Australia via a relationship with an Australian citizen?????