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Posted on Thu, Oct 04, 2007 12:08

I have been a bit bigger than the "normal" girls all my life. I have never big what I would trully consider BBW. I have never had a problem finding or keeping someone, but for one reason or another things just haven't worked out with men in the past. Men have always commented on my looks and they have always been nice comments. But I have never met a man who actually wanted or preferred a larger woman than to what most society thinks of as a normal size (which to me is 10-12). So my question is for mainly men here but women replies are welcomed. What is it about BBW's that you like? Why do you prefer larger women? Is it because you yourself are a larger man? Or what?
(And I am not speaking about large vs. the stick thin women, who would want to hold someone in fear of snapping them in half)



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Posted on Wed, Jun 08, 2011 12:10

Ive always liked larger women mostly bacause they have been nicer to me thank skinny girls, plus im a sucker for large hips.

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Posted on Sun, Jun 05, 2011 14:57

Here I thought all along I loved women with big boobs. Now I find that I'm REALLY turned on by a full set of round shoulders ...and curiously enough a full leg and ankle. I don't find that odd at all. Guess I'm just in love with the "perfect" female form. That would be a sexy and vivacious BBW.

I do enjoy a romp with a girl with big boobs, but big boobs on a skinny gal seems unnatural just like silicone implants. Be _who_ you are and don't let New York ad agencies or TV dictate how you should look. Styx said it best: The Grand Illusion.



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Posted on Mon, Jun 07, 2010 08:50

To me it's not rocket science. I love the curves, I love super busty women, and I like the way a some bbw's look.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 23, 2009 22:51

Of course they love us....whats not to love, curves, and you can't underestimate a nice round butt



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Posted on Sun, Dec 13, 2009 16:24

@Uhuhokay:

Erm... who exactly are you responding to?



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Posted on Fri, Aug 01, 2008 19:46

I often wonder the same thing about men. Here are some of my favorite things men have said to me, either about me, or women like us.
"My Dad taught me that a real woman should jiggle when you're making love to her."
"I like my women like my cars, built for comfort not speed."
"Don't skinny chicks know that bone on bone hurts?" This from my very thin x-husband, who oddly enough left me for one of his skinny co-workers! LOL how ironic!



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Posted on Fri, Jul 04, 2008 02:38

Quoting queenpisces:

So my question is for mainly men here but women replies are welcomed. What is it about BBW's that you like? Why do you prefer larger women? Is it because you yourself are a larger man? Or what?
(And I am not speaking about large vs. the stick thin women, who would want to hold someone in fear of snapping them in half)



To be honest, I like butts... plain and simple. You don't find that on thin girls... PERIOD! I'm also into the curvy, voluptuous shaped woman, but hell, I'm still 22, I can be shallow right? ummm, right?

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Posted on Sun, Feb 17, 2008 23:01

Maggie45, I don't think that people who have a preference for thinner women are small-minded. That is simply their preference, and I choose not to find fault with them for that. I have preferences as well, and my guess is that you do too. That doesn't make us small-minded and I don't see it as a sign of feelings of inferiority. It makes us human.

Now I for one am VERY thankful there are men here and elsewhere who love us bigger gals. And I no longer question why. I just smile and give thanks!



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Posted on Thu, Jan 17, 2008 12:10

I have also always been attracted to curvy girls. My favorite girlfriends in high school were sizes 10 and 14. My first wife was a 10 and my late second wife was an 18 when we married. As the movie says, "Real women have curves. While I can appreciate the mystique of women athletes and bodybuilders, I am excited by the softness of a rubinesque woman.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 17, 2007 21:27

Well with me I try to date thin girls and women when I was young and even now the first think out of their mouths is "You are nice sweet cute guy but I like you as older brother or just a friend" that why I prefer BBW they do have a Heart they know how to treat their guys right



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Posted on Tue, Nov 20, 2007 18:41

Maggie I think you are fine just the way you are. Believe me that there many men that hold the same conviction. Though I live in SW Florida I am married and realize that you can do much better than a person of my ilk. I do hope that you can find the person of your dreams here.



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Posted on Sat, Nov 17, 2007 16:01

Hi I agree with you and i am older than you. As one BBW to another
BBW ..it really kind of sucks...But at my age I feel that I have dieted all of my life and am not sure that i am happy with all of the weight I am caring right now ...but I feel that if I find someone who loves me as I am right now , I would probably lose wight because I would be Happy AND WOULD NOT HAVE TO TRY TO BE SOMETHING OR SOMEONE THAT i AM NOT.

If THEY ARE SO SMALL MINDED AND ONLY LOOK FOR THE SHAPE AND NOT THE PERSON AND THE HEART .....GET A PUPPY AND A LOT OF GIRLFRIENDS BECAUSE THE GUYS NEED US MORE THAN WE NEED THEM. most OF THEM ONLY WANT A CUPIE DOLL ON THEIR ARMS BECAUSE THEY FEEL INFERIOR.. give ME A real Man !!!
are THERE ANY OUT THERE IN
Southwest Florida?

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Posted on Fri, Nov 16, 2007 07:48

queenpisces write:
I have been a bit bigger than the "normal" girls all my life. I have never big what I would trully consider BBW. I have never had a problem finding or keeping someone, but for one reason or another things just haven't worked out with men in the past. Men have always commented on my looks and they have always been nice comments. But I have never met a man who actually wanted or preferred a larger woman than to what most society thinks of as a normal size (which to me is 10-12). So my question is for mainly men here but women replies are welcomed. What is it about BBW's that you like? Why do you prefer larger women? Is it because you yourself are a larger man? Or what?
(And I am not speaking about large vs. the stick thin women, who would want to hold someone in fear of snapping them in half)

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Well to be honest with you I cant stand a skinny woman...Thats just me because I dated one once in high school and she just didnt do it for me, but I did have a crush on a girl who happend to be a bbw but I was too proud to admit that I like bigger women, but back to the point I'm a s*cker for big legs, thighs and breast lol!!( sounds like a bucket of Popeys) and from a mental stand point they have the sweetest personalities in the world because I also CANNOT STAND A DIVA!!!! And other than that they're too cute not hold on to.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 07, 2007 20:59

Thank you lookinginward



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Posted on Sun, Oct 07, 2007 15:43

I've always thought curves were wonderful. And a larger woman fits me better! 8) BTW you are beautiful!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 06, 2007 11:10

I prefer a pretty face, first. The body is secondary. I like a softer comfortable woman to hold not a hard, stick, woman to hold.
I like luxury cars not cars that you can feel every bump.



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Posted on Fri, Oct 05, 2007 10:38

For me i just do, always have .Some like blondes, some are booty men, some like goth, I like BBW,s and often think that if some girl struttin her modelesque figure around knew that she dint rate a second glance from me. She would be CRUSHED.



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