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What's wrong with "Friends" first???
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Posted on Sun, Sep 09, 2007 09:10

I have been "dating" now for about 3 years. And it seems to me that almost every man I've met through msg boards or otherwise is only interested in one thing....SEX!!!

Now, don't get me wrong, I like sex just as much as the next gal, but I would really prefer that my sexual relationships be more than that. I've been called "frigid", "prude", and "cold bitch". lol, not that those names really bother me, much...but I have to question...

Am I to old fashioned for today's dating society???



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Posted on Thu, Feb 12, 2009 17:51

Nothing wrong with being friends first. Prefer to get to know someone before anything else. There are gentlemen still alive. I believe that I am one of those people.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 23, 2008 20:56

I'm actually grateful when they hit me up at first. It helps me weed them right out. Better than finding out further down the road that he was lying.

I know plenty of men that aren't that way -- you need to learn to ask the right questions before meeting and don't be afraid to tell them to take a flying leap if they creep you out. And look at their photos. If he has his shirt off, don't bother winking -- or replying.

And NEVER EVER let someone pressure you into it. NEVER. God only knows what someone like that is carrying!!



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Posted on Mon, Aug 25, 2008 22:45

it would be nice to find a guy more interested in my favorite color than my panty color! one day maybe they will realize that the best things in life are worth waiting for! tell the to look elsewhere if they want an easy lay. sometimes the wildest girls are the ones that seem the most innocent :)



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Posted on Mon, Feb 25, 2008 08:34

i hear that!
i get the same too. oh where are the gentlemen at?

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Posted on Thu, Feb 21, 2008 17:32

Hello there!
That's what i'm looking for--friends first and let it grow!
Men who are just looking for sex are game players--they just want to fantasize then dump you--those kind of men--and even other women who think the same--are not worth the time
I'm looking for someone serious--not looking for games--especially with BHM from the UK! The Brits and Welsh KNOW how to treat their women fine and that's why I prefer guys from the UK
So gals--and guys--forget the losers and choose someone who is looking for another heart! Seriousness counts!



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Posted on Thu, Jan 03, 2008 14:28

Hi there tulsaradiogem, I know what you mean!! but not every guy is like that...Keep at it, Drop me a line some time! would love to chat more about this with you..Take care.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 19, 2007 17:06

Unfortunately, SOME guys ( I refuse to call these people MEN), seem to think that because some ladies may use the internet to find a "F*ckBuddy" for the night, that ALL ladies want the same thing.

The main problem that folks face today is the belief that "Moral Values" no longer apply. All you can do while all around you lose their own self worth, is stick to what you "Feel" to be right.

To me, you only have one soul to waste, so treat it with respect and be proud of yourself.

Hugz from a like minded, old fashioned, Cuddly Scotsman.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 21:27

I so agree with you.....



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