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Posted on Wed, Feb 07, 2007 07:16

Any one ever join any other sites that weren't made specifically for bbws? And feel a bit uncomfey about it. Ill explain I joined a different blogging site a while ago. And seams like every women on there is a size 2 I'm not kidding. I saw a thread in there tonight with these size 2 women complaining that the clothing is being made to big now a days. Not that I have anything against size 2 women but I dunno I just never feel compleatly comfey on sites like them kinda like I'm a closet fat person or something lol .. Any one else know what I mean??



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Posted on Sun, Apr 15, 2007 19:09

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But yes sometimes I have to stand up and tell the skinny chicks on that site that not everyone likes skinny chicks. It kills me when they type something like if I gain anymore weight only ugly, cripple guys will want me. I don't understand people sometimes.

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Hey with that kind of attitude only STUPPID men would like gals like them. A man would have to have no emotions and no brain to want someone with an attitude like those women. At lease an ugly crippled guy would be SMART and EMOTIONALY MATURE enough to want you and not them, in fact I dont see anyone wanting someone like those gals that told you that. I feel sorry for anyone in those womens lifes. They are probably the type of gal that chases after men who dont want them and pretend to the world that they are all that when they arent even worth the effort of saying Hi to.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 30, 2007 22:37

My friends and I laugh about this sometimes. I also belong to an interracial dating site, so when I'm on there I check the "What I'm looking for" area to see if they say anything about wanting a skinny woman. When I'm on the BBW sites I have to first check to see if the white guys are willing to date outside of their race before reading their profiles...LOL

But yes sometimes I have to stand up and tell the skinny chicks on that site that not everyone likes skinny chicks. It kills me when they type something like if I gain anymore weight only ugly, cripple guys will want me. I don't understand people sometimes.

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Posted on Wed, Mar 21, 2007 20:48

I know how you feel. I often felt that way when I was on dating sites that wasnt bbw. I think its because despite putting up a good discription of what I look like I still felt like I was deciving people about what I was... like I had to have bbw stamped to my forhead or something in order for people to know what I was. But the reality is that you shouldnt feel uncomfortable about it. If your open and honest about who and what you are you shouldnt feel bad. When those size two girls are complaining tell them what a struggle it is for you as a bbw to find clothing that fits rite. Talk about how designers should have a wider range of clothing sizes in their lines and stuff like that. You see while your not as skinny as them you do have a simular problem... fit. Your just oppisite ends of the spectrum. Dont feel bad about it but injoy talking to others who are diffrent than you. If they have a problem whith your size then thats their problem. It just shows how emotionally stunted they are if they treat you badly cause of your size.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 01, 2007 06:07

SquishyErin (and anyone else reading!) Please, please, please don't feel inferior or even have that thought for a second! No-one on this planet is better than you. We are all beautiful in our own way, and there is someone out there for everyone! It would be pretty cr@p if we were all the same or stick thin with edges. You are beautiful. You're quite young, but believe me - you will become more confident and love yourself! If people want to be narrow minded and catty - then STUFF 'em!!! We know what's best, don't we girls?!!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 19:28

You sound way too cute to be inferior to any skinny chick Erin.

I can't really say too much on this topic since I'm not a bbw.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 05:42

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I know exactly what you mean. Nowadays I just stay away from them because I always feel as though I'm inferior to the skinnier girls.

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Thanks for the reply seams like the message bords around here have really droped off a bit since I last posted I can hear the tumble weeds tossing around as I write this lol.. You should never feel inferior to them I know I don't. I can except myself just as I am and be ok with it. Just that I don't feel like they would be so excepting of me if they knew I wasn't in the size 2 club. They actually had threads in there debating wither or not society should even except us. And some of the ansers were kinda shocking really..Okie dokies thanks again :)



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