I posted this in a blog, but thought it important enough to share with everyone here as well.
... well. This may be the answer to a lot of questions.
This guy just sent me an IM using the LF chat feature. He was all about my chest size and what I was wearing and what not. I asked him what he came to this site for. After all, it's not the Adult Friend Finder, right? ... Well, he assumed this site was like that one because he found the link to this site from an INTERNET PORN ADVERTISEMENT.
He gave me the site and with very little investigation I found an ad link for not only this (LF) site but several others.
Blame the LF marketing team for your problems with cybermonkies.