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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 13:02

Ok, so I have a choice between the one Im kind of with now or the one that lives closer... wich should it be? Should I get deeper involved with a guy who lives almost a couple of hours away or should I give my friend the go ahead to hook me up with a guy that lives closer to me?... If you need more info to decide check out my blog. This is going to bug me. I don't know what to do. Their hasent been any promises of a acctual boyfriend girlfriend going steady kind of thing but I think it has been implied... I just dont know how I manage to get into confusing situations like this.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2006 19:03

Here's my advice -

I do want to first let you know that I completely understand your situation. When I was 17 I met a guy that I was completely infatuated with. He lived 5 hours away. Because of this, I completely shunned any chance I had of a local relationship because I knew that I had him. Well, obviously, things didn't work because I'm now 21, and we broke up about four weeks ago. Now, we weren't even officially going out until July 15th of this year. I waited for him for 4 years. In this time, I didn't even give any local guys a chance. As soon as I was either set up or asked out, I immediately said no. I would, based on personal experience, give the local guy a try...OR...you could even just have it set up as a platonic date (pay for yourselves, something like that) just so that you can get a feel for him and see if there's a spark. That's what I would do...but then again I'm bitter against long distance relationships because of what I did to myself



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2006 08:22

Kind of a tough call there. I'd say don't necessarily rule out the guy that lives a couple of hours away. The woman I'm seeing lives that far and we're crazy about each other. It takes a little more effort but we're making it work and the rewards are so worth it :D