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  • View author's info Author Posted on Jun 12, 2006 at 04:06 AM

    Hi everyone. I've just re-joined this site after a few months away. I've never had any luck here so I don't suppose I will this time either, but at least I'm going to give it a go. I sometimes wonder if I'm too honest about my negative points in my profile, and that puts people off - But people will find out about me anyway, so why hide it? I'm an honest person and hate hiding things. I think my problem is a mix between bad looks and...Well other things about my life at the moment. This time around I'm honestly not even that sure what I'm looking for, so I guess that isn't the best start. Someone local for a change would be nice, as a friend, then take it from there. If I get many winks I intend to pay for a subscription so I can write to people, but I won't bother unless I at least get winked at.

    Anyway, I mainly just wanted to introduce myself. I think my new description hasn't been approved at the time of writing this so what you may read there is old unfortunately. Take care everyone,
    Geoff (from Littlehampton, West Sussex, UK).

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 08, 2006 at 07:10 AM

    Hi Stacie. No you haven't offended me at all - In fact you've been very helpful! Sorry by the way that it's taken me so long to reply, but I haven't looked here for a while now.
    The last time I updated my profile I did try hard not to be negative, but I don't know if I managed it or not? I guess that sentence in itself is negative! Hehe. All the quotes you wrote from my last message on here though make me feel quite silly. I never realised just how badly I was coming across! So I appreciate you pointing it out to me. I'll be a lot more careful in the future.

    I'm going to go now and re-check my profile and see if it's worth changing. I do often read through it but I'll bare in mind all you pointed out this time.

    I wish you lived nearer too. :)
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 02, 2006 at 02:10 AM

    Your profile is fine.
    Your pictures are not what you think...
    You are a handsome man!!
    You being unemployeed is just a thing. Who hasn't had a rough time now and again.
    The big thing is your negativity. Don't think about the cup half empty...think half full!
    Get off the downer and say happy things.
    Look what WE saw in only ONE paragraph...

    * I've never had any luck here
    *I don't suppose I will this time either,
    *I'm too honest about my negative points in my profile
    *people will find out about me anyway,
    *I think my problem is.....
    *not even that sure what I'm looking for
    *I guess that isn't the best start.

    My Oh My - find something happy to say.
    What do you like to do?
    What makes you smile?
    What makes you laugh?

    You can be a dynomite person to someone if you don't have the excess baggage of downer converstion and negative vibes.

    I wish I was closer to the UK. I would make sure you only thought happy thoughts and laughed so hard everyday that your stomach hurt.

    Good Luck my friend, I surely hope I have not offended you.


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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 14, 2006 at 03:10 AM

    Thanks for your reply bluegirl and for what you said about my photos. :) I also believe the being unemployed will put people off and I've thought long and hard about mentioning it in my profile or not. People will find out soon enough anyway though so I may as well filter out anyone who's bothered by it before anything starts! :) I do wish people wouldn't judge so easily though, but would get to know 'me' rather than worrying about the problems I have in life. I have a reason I'm not working that I won't get into here that I can't change at the moment. I feel that I'm doomed for the dating scrap heap though because I have some problems, which really upsets me.