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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 10:24

I can't seem to attract they type of guys that will treat me well. does anyone have any suggestions? I recently left a phsyically/emotionally abusive relationship, and i don't want to repeat the same pattern. i haven't the first clue as to how to prevent it from happening again. any response would be greatly appreciated!!!



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 10:37

Love yourself, when you love yourself more than anyone then you can move on to love those that treat you with the kind of respect that a person who loves their self expects.



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Posted on Sat, May 13, 2006 19:33

I dont think its a dumb question. Sometimes we are blinded by our own ignorance and love is a huge contributing factor to ignorance. ive never really been in an abusive relationship - knock on wood - but i would say that you gut instinct is the best thing that you have. Relationships and love for that matter arn't supposed to hurt and if they do, it might be a clue that its not the best situation. But like i said im no expert.



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Posted on Fri, May 12, 2006 20:12

Remember that men don't define YOU! Finding you are OK alone, helps break the abuse cycle. Be picky-- not any man will do!



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