I can't seem to attract they type of guys that will treat me well. does anyone have any suggestions? I recently left a phsyically/emotionally abusive relationship, and i don't want to repeat the same pattern. i haven't the first clue as to how to prevent it from happening again. any response would be greatly appreciated!!!
I dont think its a dumb question. Sometimes we are blinded by our own ignorance and love is a huge contributing factor to ignorance. ive never really been in an abusive relationship - knock on wood - but i would say that you gut instinct is the best thing that you have. Relationships and love for that matter arn't supposed to hurt and if they do, it might be a clue that its not the best situation. But like i said im no expert.