I have been trying to find out for sometime why men feel it necessary to tell a woman he mastubates thinking of her. Last year when I was registered with another BBW site I chatted to a man for several months in a friendly non sexual manner and one day out of the blue he mentioned that he mastubates thinking about me. I immediately deleted him. It was unexpected and furthermore I had visions of him doing his thing and watching it splatter all over my pic. It also reminds me of the male dog who urinates against the tree making his mark for the female. I am aware that everyone does it at some time but do I really need to know? Any comments especially from the men?
Rockchickbbw write: I think men think its a kind of compliment to let you know you are thought of in that way .... some women may dig it ... some may not ... but its also probably an opening line for ... Can I splatter it all over you for real now ...???
But if I've only been chatting with a guy online in a friendly, non-sexual manner for a period of weeks or months, I really don't want to hear about his masturbatory practices OR have him tell me that he wants to ejaculate all over me. Unless I've specifically invited that kind of commentary, it is offensive and potentially grounds for a sexual harrassment complaint. It's an unwanted advance, unless specifically solicited.
I think the only conversation I've ever had with a man that wasn't sexual was with my husband. (He's passed on.) Every other one, and I mean every single one has been sexual. I once read an IM my boyfriend had had with a woman on another site and he mentioned that very thing to her. She had apparently sent him other photos besides the one she had on the site. He was very bold in telling her that he'd been masturbating to her pics. I know for fact that all men aren't like this. But the internet is a great porn device for alot of men for whatever reason. Most never have any intention whatsoever of ever meeting. You did the right thing.
Because they have no tact or class!!! Its one thing if ur in a longterm relationship or if ur into that kind of state of arousal urself & openly discuss it. I find though thats rarely the case at all... And far as it being a form of a compliment PLEASE BY ALL MEANS send me a wink LOL
I think men think its a kind of compliment to let you know you are thought of in that way .... some women may dig it ... some may not ... but its also probably an opening line for ... Can I splatter it all over you for real now ...???