My name is julie and i was wondering are there any men out there under 30 with a nice body interested in me?. i feel terrible in bein so judgemental but im not attracted to really large men and for me attraction plays a large part of the relationship.Thats not to say i havent dated larger men before but i want to find a man that makes me feel sexy treats me like a lady with respect and is fit enough to keep up (i have a very high sex drive)lol.Am i wrong in being so judgemental towards larger men when iam large myself?
I don't think the problems lie in whether or not guys with your preferences are interested in you. I think the problem lies in the way you think about yourself.
Just say it out loud and listen to the way it sounds: "...I was wondering are there any men out there under 30 with a nice body interested in me?."
That's the attitude that most "nice guys" have, and we know how girls feel about that. In the words of Katt Williams "you need to be the s**t to YOU!" You need to KNOW that guys under 30 with nice bodies are interested in you! I say that because I go to the University of Miami... where hot bodies reign supreme. In my 4 years, I've found that confidence plays a huge role in the decisions guys make. If you're sexy, classy, and confident... you got all you need! However, YOU need to be the one to believe that.