Can anyone explain why? Message board

  • View author's info Author posted on Apr 26, 2006 03:58


    Can anyone explain why some men do the things they do? You meet someone you think is a nice person and your talking and get along fine and then BAM!!!! they are gone. Why can't a man just say ya know its just not working out and I think I am moving on. I am wondering if its worth all this trouble and pain that I go through. I just want to meet someone to love and love me back, is that really asking a lot? Maybe its my destiny to be alone I don't know. I go to work everyday and come home every night and I go through the motions and sometimes I just wonder why, whats the point.
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  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2006 18:40


    OK ya'll its not just us men. The same thing happened to me. I met this lady here we started talking, and talked on the phone many times in a three week peroid. I asked her if she wanted to meet since we got along so well. So not only did she not answer but she removed her profile. I am a big boy if you don't want to meet me in the real world just say so. the lady in question had no pic in her profile....maybe like so many men here she's married, or maybe that's just my ego talking. just know this ladies players come in both sexes.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 23, 2006 03:01


    First off not that I'm here to defent the male as a whole. Some men have a hard time talking about feelings most women know this to some extent especially if they don't have any commitment to said lady. Sometimes it's easy or less pain full for a man to "drop the Axe". Not to mention alot of men are full of themselves.

    P.S. I have noticed there are alot of people in LF that are from Australia. Wanted to say one of the best places I've went on vacation to. Beautiful city's, nice people, great food, nice weather, never got a hold on the driving.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 11, 2006 18:24


    Match

    No, having to tell us would mean the risk of tears or confrontation; two things the male of our species will do backflips to avoid.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2006 09:08


    I have to admit.....I had something GREAT one time it was my first online thing..NEVER had something like it before in my life......I messed it up....I guess I was selfish and didn't know the online ediqette RULES.....it was my loss...I tried to apoligise and atleast get his friendship...BUT...nothing....I will never hear from him again.....but since that I've chated with a few others and I'm doing ok....still feel alittle guilty...but I put it in my past and I'm moving on....will I ever do an online thing like I did with him.....NEVER I will never go there again..I learned my lession well....and so its not men who do all the crapy things women do it too...me for one....if I had to do over again...I would have done things diffently.....so don't give up...move on there are others and others will love and adore you.....BB Jeanie
  • View author's info posted on Aug 05, 2006 23:59


    The other thing I don't understand is when you meet a so-called 'gentleman' who talks very nicely to you and seems to be a really nice guy, and then one day-WHAM! Out comes all the sex talk. Sheesh, I don't want to talk about nothing but sex! Last time I looked the world was filled with a lot of rather interesting things to talk about than just sex.

    And this cuts across all barriers of education, and everything. When I hear that "Hi, how are you doing?" and then, "What are you wearing?" I just about want to scream. I don't even know this person! I could see if we had been dating and we were temporarily separated, but sheesh!

    Any other ladies feel like this? And why do these guys keep doing it?

    Laura...still wondering
  • View author's info posted on Aug 05, 2006 23:57


    The other thing I don't understand is when you meet a so-called 'gentleman' who talks very nicely to you and seems to be a really nice guy, and then one day-WHAM! Out comes all the sex talk. Sheesh, I don't want to talk about nothing but sex! Last time I looked the world was filled with a lot of rather interesting things to talk about than just sex.

    And this cuts across all barriers of education, and everything. When I hear that "Hi, how are you doing?" and then, "What are you wearing?" I just about want to scream. I don't even know this person! I could see if we had been dating and we were temporarily separated, but sheesh!

    Any other ladies feel like this? And why do these guys keep doing it?

    Laura...still wondering
  • View author's info posted on May 19, 2006 01:55


    Hello Country,

    I have a friend who actually confided
    in a "let you think you put him down
    method." He shuts down, backs off and
    eventually you will get tired of the
    ceased communication relationship. In
    reality, he just didn't want to hurt
    his Female companion. He figured out
    a sure way to get her to back off...
    stop talking.
  • View author's info posted on May 02, 2006 22:22


    this problem doesnt only happen with men. i have had the same problem with women that i have met too. sure wish that i could find the "right one" in my area..
    sweet dreams ladies
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