It might be easy to make me smile and make me blush but thats as far as it go's. If someone compliments me my whole face lights up and turns bright red. But before they even walk away I got that voice in the back of my head saying "yep hes a lier wonder what he wants. " Not all BBWS are easy im 23 and ive never even excepted an inventation to go on a date. For the plain and simple fact that theres always that little voice saying "yep its a trap hes a lier dont fall for it". So the whole low self esteam bull can go both ways you can be like some who easily open up to people, or you can be like some who automaticly push people away.
Actuarly, im the opposite. Its easy to just have sex with someone but its the relationships that i want. I think that some men do find bbw women easy. When talking to ppl, they atuomatically assume that im easy and bi curious.
Depending on the timing, aren't we all a bit "easy" at one time or another? Whether we are plus-sized, model thin, broke, ugly, down in the dumps, wealthy or in a particular state of mind at a particular time, I believe that all human beings can be considered easy. None of us are immune to vulnerability and loneliness and depending on where we are, how we feel and opportunity, we can have our "easy" moment...or two...or three.
no one is easy some people act in the moment and some do not. thin women are easy larger women are easy if what is being offered is what you are looking for. here is a trueth if any one on this site was easy we would not be single we all get offers for relationships that we turn down as the attraction is not mutual. but in cases when the attraction is mutual we go for it and it is a chance we all take sometimes we lose and hurt and when we recover and move on too quickly by others peoples judgement we are easy. are we saying being bitter is sexy. we move on on our own pace we are not easy
Okay, two scenarios to think about: you're out at a club and early in the evening, some hottie approaches you or even you approach him, you talk and laugh, tease and flirt, both knowing that the evening is going to end in sex, even if there is no chance for a relationship developing, do you do it? Or how about you've been wallflowering at this same club all night and then minutes before close, some guy comes up and says a few nice things to you and you end up leaving with him and having sex. It's still your mind and you're free to choose. It's also your body and if you want to have sex, have sex. But don't fall under some romantic notion that this guy is gonna let you sleep in his arms and make you breakfast in bed. He's just looking for some booty and you let him have it. And so whose fault is it that people think BBWs are easy? (I know I'm gonna catch some $hit for this comment... lol)
bbw are no different than the average sized female. There are easy women on both sides of the scale. I guess one may assume because we are larger we should be grateful to have sex when in fact it has nothing to do with it! Men like women have preferences and regardless whatever category you may fall in if you have a low self esteem due to weight or your features you still can be promiscuous!!!!!! thinner women have the same woes we do when it comes to men, sex and relationships!
Men use intimacy to get sex, women use sex to get intimacy. Size does not change the inner yearnings of humanity. Whenever the subject moves from how I think to my bra size I'm gone...
I would rather wait alone for my mister miracle (the guy who truly appreciates a strong, intelligent, capable woman) than to offer my preciousness to drive through gigalo's. Self-respect is more precious than chocolate!
Our time is now. Love yourselves from the bottom of your feet to the end of our longest hair. Only then will your true love find you.
I think it's a great place to meet people. It's not a dating site, but you still meet lots of wonderful individuals. For myself, it's a great comunication tool between my teenagers and I. It is definatly not a place for just teenagers. Heck, my parents are on it!!!
As for BBW's being easy targets... its a sad true fact, in the general sense. That doesn't mean that we all are... but as a majority, its a reality that can not be denied. I think the ladies here have pretty much covered the reasons why.
Me easy... You can probably hear me laughing all the way in space. I had my first kiss last December and it wasn't for lack of offers. I always git hit on for sexual stuff but rarely git offers for a date with no sex so it's not like I can't have my pick of lovers. I'm not easy cause I need to have that special mix of chemistry and friendship for a relationship so I automatically reject what I consider less than respectful offers of one nighters so you can't say I'm easy (unless the guy is someone I like who treats me with respect and I'm insanely hot for him... then I'm about as easy as they come). I hate guys like that. I mean really. I was getting offers like that from guys since I was 12yrs old. The sad part is that guys like that also prey on other types of women that have problems with their self image. A good blow to someone like that's ego is if the women they picked ignore them or outright told them that their not worthy to the gum stuck on the bottom of your shoe. Their needs to be a self help group or something for women who fall for guys like that. The motto should be "Men who think BBW's are easy are going to go to bed needy, unless their own hand is easy"
I agree with Pink. Let's face it, ladies, in our society people who are more robust that others are treated as if they have some form of lepracy. People stare at you, they snicker or make comments, or they are just downright rude, as if poor metabolism makes us less worthy than others. People who have spent their entire lives being treated that way react to the slightest bit of kindness or attention like its manna from heaven. And to BBW this frequently means spreading your legs a lot quicker than you should. It makes me so angry when I see women like that, who allow themselves and even their children to be treated poorly by a man just so they don't have to be alone. That guy is a parasite, trying to feed on the weak. But remember, ladies - life is all about survival of the fittest, and if trapped on a desert island we would last a lot longer than some skinny minnie or a jerk like that guy.
I completely agree that women as a whole suffer from an insecurity that allows them to settle for the short term intimacy sex provides. That can obviously be perceived as being easy from other ppl. I don't believe these women are inherently easy, they just equate sex with love. Some of these women, like myself, knew/know it's not love at all. I used to be one of those women. I simply wanted to feel desired. At the time having sex with someone gave me that. It's only after some self reflection was I able to identify the root cause and then take the steps needed to rebuild my self esteem and self worth. I think it is imperative for everyone to continuously monitor and protect their self esteem because poor self esteem is the root cause of many (if not all) self destructive behaviors that cripple both men and women.
u know that allways get under my skin when i hear BBW's are easy, i agree with Pink that some ladies due to the self-esttem issue tend to equate love with sex but that happens with most women with low self-esteem....we can use titles if we wish like BBw's, skinny miennies or whatever, the fact is if some WOMEN have a distorted image about themselves, the guys who look for these types of females will PREY on them ...but just like the myth of the blond or black females we have these misconceptions ....THOSE TYPES OF MEN who rely on those myths just show the depth of their character and should be laughed at ...how stupid...i guess if he is a good boy santa will come down the chimney and provide him with an EASY BBW.
There are lots of guys like that, cause particularly when BBW's are younger, I find that many lack self-esteem and confidence. Which makes them vulnerable to ***holes looking to just "throw down" with no strings or anything.
It's so stupid. People look for instant gratification too much without having to think how it hurts other people.
All you lovely ladies out there just need to keep your chins up and stay strong. Don't let guys like that prey on you. If there is no connection in personality and emotional core, then tell them to f*** off.
Unless of course, you, yourself are just looking for that same easy/casual sex. Then I guess roll with it.
Unfortunately Marney bbws are easy because.. They have low self esteem now I'm not saying that all of us are like that.. So plz don't jump down my thought on that one.. It's not meant to be mean it's just a sad fact.. But it's because of how people and guys in particular usually treat them... They end up with a well I'm Lucky to get any thing attitude.. And guys can sense that and then use them just for fun.. When ever there pathetic lives don't allow for them to get any.. Bbws have to learn to respect them selves more in general.. But I agree the guys who prey on bbws are prob the lowest form of life..I'm pretty sure I know what web site your talking about tall.. I have a account there too.. It's really just a tenie bop social seen to me.. Filled with super shallow people.. I just joined for the journal part of it.. I never really expected to find much intelligent life there.. LoL..