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Posted on Tue, Mar 07, 2006 19:15

I just don't understand why it is so hard to find a good man I am very good looking and smart to boot. It seems like all the good ones are gay or gone!!

  


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Posted on Fri, Mar 31, 2006 21:02

I agree, they do exsit. Its about how people relate to eachother. Your perfect man, might not be mine and vis versa. Don't give up there is someone for everyone i firmly believe.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 31, 2006 20:43

I AGREE WITH YOU GIRL. I HAVEN'T MET A DECENT GUY YET. THEY ARE ALL DISHONEST AND ARE SELFISH AND AND AREN'T LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP. JUST "SHORT TERM FUN" SO I'VE KINDA GIVEN UP ON THE WHOLE THING.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 31, 2006 17:40

RodeoCowCop write:
I think finding a good man and even a good woman for that matter is about chemistry in all aspects, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Good men and good women exist....it just depends on that spark that ignites between two people. It's that feeling inside that says that something is different with this one. You can't quite explain it, but it's just a gut feeling, so you go with it. I consider myself a genuine nice and good guy who is also shy at times. But if someone is stunning, like many women on this site, it's a little intimidating to try and make the first move. But because I know I am a nice guy I have faith that I will find that one special person, who will connect with me across this wild world of the internet.


Well said that man

  


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Posted on Tue, Mar 28, 2006 13:50

It's odd cuz I know genially nice guys.. Who can't find any one and end up going.. why don't girls want the nice guys..Guess it's just mostly a crap shoot on getting Lucky.. And meeting the right person at the right time..Also if you have your standards to high.. Like maybe looks wise you might miss out on.. Allot of really great sweet guys..What I mean by that is.. Some girls want the tom cruse or brad pit look alikes only.. And let's face it people.. They ain't the ones with the nicest.. Personality's most of the time.. Same can be said for females..Guys what the pam Anderson or Jolee with the.. Amazing sweet personality to boot..Just not reality most of the time..Best of luck to you tho..Hope ya end up meeting a nice guy..

  


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Posted on Mon, Mar 27, 2006 15:17

I have to agree with RodeoCowCop. There are LOTS of good guys/gals out there. That simply isn't enough though when it comes to finding your true mate. Being "good" has little to do with being a match. I've met some really wonderful men, but there simply was no chemistry between us beyond a friendship. It also depends on what your looking for in a guy and what you consider "good". If your ideals of "good" is Mr.Macho, awsome looking, makes lots of bucks, owns a home, drives a snazzy car, etc... then yeah... it would be difficult to find that person. If your idea of a "good" man is someone who would lay their life down for you, love you unconditionally, support you in your decisions and goals, etc... then they are all around. Still, it comes down to chemistry and how two people react to one another in all ways. Location has a lot to do with finding Mr. Right also. It's much more difficult when there are thousands of miles between two people than just a couple of hours or less.

RodeoCowCop... your younger than I normally like to date, but you sound like a great person to meet. We should have coffee soon! *smile*



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Posted on Fri, Mar 24, 2006 23:22

I think finding a good man and even a good woman for that matter is about chemistry in all aspects, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Good men and good women exist....it just depends on that spark that ignites between two people. It's that feeling inside that says that something is different with this one. You can't quite explain it, but it's just a gut feeling, so you go with it. I consider myself a genuine nice and good guy who is also shy at times. But if someone is stunning, like many women on this site, it's a little intimidating to try and make the first move. But because I know I am a nice guy I have faith that I will find that one special person, who will connect with me across this wild world of the internet.



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Posted on Mon, Mar 13, 2006 15:21

I don't find it hard to find decent men.... they are all around us. There are lots of them on this site! I have had the pleasure of meeting several from here.



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Posted on Sun, Mar 12, 2006 17:47

Must be because we are so modest and shy - we have to be aproached.
Thats why U don't find us.
But now's there's hope - I am here
Arne from Norway

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Posted on Sat, Mar 11, 2006 15:12

idk, sometimes it does seem like all the decent ones are already taken. I use to have a saying that all decent guys were either gay, taken, or related to you. lol....but seriously, there are good decent men out in society, i think it's harder to find them, b.c they are so modest. just my 2cents.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 09, 2006 16:00

Sorry you feel that way...

As a guy I don't know what advice I could actually give or say to you. What kinds of guys are you looking for? I mean, if you're looking in the wrong "type" it could be a problem.

But I wish you the best and hope someone can give you a better bit of advice/assistance.



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