I'm a bit of an obsessive gym-goer .... I get huge pangs of guilt if I don't work out regularly, I'm talking once, sometimes even twice a month!
And as for food ... well my body is a temple. Think "Taj Mahal", lol. I like to take the healthy option where possible .... even opting for chocolate with fruit and nuts 'cos they are good for you, tee hee!
My "normal" sized friends work hard to stay that way, I enjoy my food and make no apologies for it!
You were a breath of fresh air on here Sharpy, always happy to speak your mind. A little contradictary maybe, but also funny, observant, touching and never dull.
Erm.. I think you've been talking to the wrong people then!
I dont believe in 'Diets' however i DO believe in healthy eating, Im happy with my size and i eat what i like within reason and just make sure i don't eat too much saturated fat obviously as everyone should for for health reasons! as for 'the gym' that's a swear word to me - i enjoy swimming once a week and i do have like a mini gym in my house but it's not like i use it all the time - just enough to keep fit as i do consider myself 'quite' fit - i can run!! lol
Well Sharpy - if you really want to leave then so be it - have a good one and all that BUT i really don't see the point in you leaving! You enjoy chatting in these forums and im sure that if you hang on a while the right girl will turn up who WONT talk about dieting and gyms etc! God knows why ANY woman would rabbit on about that sort of thing on this site - the problem is a lot of larger woman are craving acceptence and they feel they should say it so the guy thinks he will end up with a thin woman at the end of it all forgetting that they are on a dating site for large women and men AND admirers! Jeeez ladies try and remember the guys here actually WANT a larger woman!!! lol
I think what you said is right, people are often too quick to say that they love someone without being sincere about it.
They seem to confuse lust and desire with the emotion of love. Or maybe they are using 'I love You' in the sort of way that you would use 'I like You' but because they really like you they go OTT and use the word Love.
So it's a very good point that you make and it was taken in the good spirit that you said it in.
I often forget to add an emoticon so my posts can be misconstrued quite easily, but it adds some ambiguity to them I suppose, which makes the responses that I get a lot more varied and interesting.
Cheers Chris (Sharpy)
Sharpy, Here's a big hug for you for being a total sweetie. Grab it quick before the moderators nick it for themselves!
Ok, that was a decent answer, but the original question still remains. It is clear that you think you are the best road to take, and you very well could be, but so far in this post I have not seen you tell anyone why. I do have to say that I think you are interesting but that is based on only a few lymerics. And I want you to know that I am in no way trying to be nasty (like certain other women here) I am just curious about the man who is offering himself on a silver platter.
A nun was soaking in the bath when she heard a knock on the door. "Who is it?" she called, "It's only the blind man" came the reply.
The nun thought ah well it's ok to let him in cos he's blind so she opened the door.
The man walked in and said "Nice ti*ts lady, now where do you want these blinds?"
Veni Dearest, the lips were delightful....were they yours? I guess they were yanked? WHOT THE HELL! IF they were your lips, if they were someone elses maybe you had to pay a royalty. ...well...if some fellow in jail had that picture I guess they would be certified 'stroke' material. I DON'T mean a cerebral infarction either. (!)
Hey Sharpe! WHOT THE HELL? I appreciate that you returned the lips to the site since VeniVini yanked them in favor of the last living retired BEEFEATER in Wal-mart skivees. The color is a little garish but I do appreciate the solidarity.
You know Sharpy, something just occurred to me. You are asking all these women to compete for a date with you, but just out of curiosity, what makes you so special that all these women should WANT a date with you???