Hi everyone! Well, I am new to the BBW online dating scene, and just wanted to express my gratitude that they exist! I am from California originally, came to Scotland on holiday 7 years ago, and met my now ex-husband. He left me a year and a half ago, as I was too fat; I disgusted him, he was embarrassed of me, and he did a number on my self-esteem. I then joined many other non-BBW dating websites, only to be told constantly that I have a pretty face, too bad I'm fat...But just knowing that these BBW sites exist, even if I have no luck in meeting someone, I feel so much better knowing that there are REAL men out there, that are willing to get to know me for me! So thank you for the sites!! Good luck to everyone out there!
gemdevine write: Or the one that always takes the cake for me..."You're pretty for a big girl". What the hell does that mean?
Oh, I know, it IS rather annoying! The other that annoys me, is when you hear someone say (from any race about another race..) Oh, she's pretty, for a black/white/asian etc girl...And I think to myself...NO...they are just pretty/handsome! Hardly makes sense to me! :)
I'm new to this too and I'm loving it. I've gotten the same pretty face comments. Or the one that always takes the cake for me..."You're pretty for a big girl". What the hell does that mean? Anyway, this has been enlightening and I wish I new about it before I probably would not have the hang ups I have now!
chikee2000 write: good golly, mac, if they call you fat, I would hate to hear what they would call me. You dont look very big at all. I just found out recently that bbw is such a popular thing. I was thankful too!
Nah...I just take good head shots!! lol I'm a 22 bottom and 26 top...