When are all of the men in southern California that really want to meet ladies on this site. There seem to be a lot of talk and freeze up when it comes to meeting. or they can not give you a phone number because they are not actually single/divorced/or separated and just playing games. Ladies if you have been experiencing some of the same post it here, and the same for you men.
I go to the Butterfly lounge on saturday nights in Costa Mesa, because i love to dance, and the atmosphere. You can find men there, but a lot of them are shy. If you see a man you like you have to get him before the other women snatch him up. There are men from all walks of life that go there.
I understand that in southern Ca. their are a BBW clubs. I heard their is one in Long Beach, Coasta Mesa, and Colton. Their are also a couple of meet-up groups too. I did go once to the one in Coasta Mesa which boarder Newport Beach called "Butterfly Lounge". The night I attended their were about 60 or so people their and it was fun.