When are all of the men in southern California that really want to meet ladies on this site. There seem to be a lot of talk and freeze up when it comes to meeting. or they can not give you a phone number because they are not actually single/divorced/or separated and just playing games. Ladies if you have been experiencing some of the same post it here, and the same for you men.

I go to the Butterfly lounge on saturday nights in Costa Mesa, because i love to dance, and the atmosphere. You can find men there, but a lot of them are shy. If you see a man you like you have to get him before the other women snatch him up. There are men from all walks of life that go there.

I understand that in southern Ca. their are a BBW clubs. I heard their is one in Long Beach, Coasta Mesa, and Colton. Their are also a couple of meet-up groups too. I did go once to the one in Coasta Mesa which boarder Newport Beach called "Butterfly Lounge". The night I attended their were about 60 or so people their and it was fun.

you can give me a try.

Whats up ma i definetly here you on that but im not like one of them i dont have a pic right now but now i hope you can hit me back iand im not a ugly guy

It just seems that there are only a handful of people from SoCal. I've counted three near Disneyland, which is where I'm at. I have my hopes though.
good vibes one and all.

I've actually met one person from this site so far. We dated it didn't work out moved on. What you seek is also looking for you, I blieve. We just have to give it time.