Just like any other site or in real life, I think you do have an equal mix of those men and women who are just players, those who are weirdos or jerks, and those who are legit.
I've only been a member a very short time, and have only chatted or e-mailed, no in person meetings yet. While there has been a few questionable inquiries, overall everyone on this site is great. I've really enjoyed the conversations, e-mails and postings.
I'd chalk this one up to this guy just being a a$$hole and having nothing to do with you. It's his loss after all!
Just don't let it discourage you from all the other great guys who are for real.
"so fat" huh? cause im 5'7 and i wear a 16 top and 20 jean size (US) and that isnt SO bad. at 5'9, i would think an 18 would suit?
I think hes got his ideas crossed, why would you be on a Bigger dating site and then knock on someone on the smaller end of that range? yeeesh. its not you, dont worry. its definitely him.
HI I have found that some men think of BBWS as maybe a few extra pounds. I haven't met anyone like you have thankfully, but im sure I will someday, its almost inevitable. I always provide a pic, and tell them I am fat, and if not their tye happy hunting. Dont let this one, negative man, get to you dear,keep positive, keep looking, and you just might find who you seek. Keep smiling!!